Hi All,

So the over the last 2 nights i have had 2 different dreams but they were rather similar and i don't know why i dreamed them.

Ok so the first dream i had was Friday night. I will tell you as much as i can but im struggling to recall most of it, i just remember the key bits.

So in the dream i was in a relationship that had been going on for a while. Then all of a sudden she deiced to leave me. as i was chasing after her i was begging her not to leave me and i was crying and i felt really sad, i mean even tho it was a dream and i was asleep it was like i was aware that i was feeling really emotional and sad. So any way I was chasing her and trying to get her not to leave me but as she got more out of reach i woke up.

Once i woke up i still felt sad for an hour or so until i got on with the day.

Ok the second dream i had last night and i remember this one in more detail.

So the dream started where i was getting out of bed (in the dream). Also in the dream i had remembered sneaking in the night before as i had been out doing something but i have no idea what it was. As i went down to get my breakfast my dad was there and he tells me the girl i had a sort of had a relationship with had given birth to our baby and was asleep up stairs. The girl as i recalled in the dream, i had slept with her after a thew dates and got her pregnant but from that point to this its like in the dream she had not existed and i was not bothered that she was pregnant. So i had my breakfast and as i headed back up stairs so i could take a wash, my cousin was there holding the baby. She passed be the baby and said its a girl. But as soon as i saw the baby it was like been hit by a brick wall of emotion all of a sudden i started to feel amazingly happy and joyfully more then i ever had been. Once again even tho i was a sleep i could really feel the emotion. So as i held the baby i kissed the her on the forehead and i was talking to her. Then from no where the mother turns up. She takes the baby off me and starts to leave. Once again like in the first dream i started to feel really sad even sort of heartbroken, like the worst saddens i had ever felt. Also once again even tho i was dreaming i could still really feel the emotion. So like the first dream i started to chase after them cry and begging her not to leave and trying to tell her how much i wanted to be apart of hers and the babys life and how i had been a fool for not knowing it or doing anything about it during the last 9 months.

Once again i woke up after her and they baby had gotten far out of reach. But this time the sadness and hart break i felt in the dream i can still fill it. at first it was very strong for like 3 hours after waking up, but for the rest of the day it is not as strong. But still now i can feel something deep down in me that feels sad.

I think these dreams are strange and very out of place for me. I am not in any relationship. Im only 21 and have only ever had like 2 girlfriends. the first was when i was around 8 so i dont think that can really counts and the second was while i was about 15 but that did not last long. I also have never been bothered about looking for a girlfriend, as i believe im still young and that the right girl will just come along one day. As for the baby, i just have no idea. I have never even thought about having a baby. As for the feeling sad and heartbroken im also not sure of as im very happy with my life. I have an amazing job that i love and i get to spend a lot of time around my family that i love.

So can anyone help explain my dreams or why i may have had them, also just to add the girl in both dreams was the same girl, but its not a real girl who i know it was just a made up girl.