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A bit of background...white female, 20 years old. grew up in northern midwest USA. No kids, no pregnancies, no serious boyfriends or marriages.... About a week ago I had a dream of becoming a surrogate mother for friends of mine even though she is currently pregnant. We went to the same doctor and the husband was there for us both throughout the pregnancies....Then last night I had a dream I became pregnant and decided I wanted to give my baby to a couple whom I know fairly well..in my dream could not have kids (they do in real life) and were elated that I was giving them such a great gift and they took very good care of me. Both dreams I was only pregnant, no delivery or anything. Each time I woke up feeling sad... Does this all mean something like I want a baby? or just a coincidence? I'm happy to answer any questions needed to interpret. Thanks in advance! |
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You do not have any boyfriend or husband, and yet in your dreams you are pregnant on behalf of women who are married, as a precious gift, and you wake up sad. I wonder whether it is not the pregnancy you crave but the relationship, you want to have or provide what they can have and you don't. You want to be there for someone else, to provide them your life and more than just your life. It is not about a selfish desire to have soemone for yourself, but I think you want to be there for someone else. And you are sad because that is not real. You feel barren without a love growing inside you, perhaps? I may of course be completely wrong - if this does not sound right, please disregard. |
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You may say I'm a dreamer.
But I'm not the only one - John Lennon
Both dreams involve you giving. Maybe you're giving birth to the idea that you need to be more giving or caring in a relationship or situation. |
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Your friend is going through a lot of things currently with the pregnancy that you may want to try and empathise with and obviously one way to do that without going through a pregnancy in real life may be for you to become pregnant in a dream. Having no serious boyfriends or marriages might have had an influence as to why you were a surrogate. As for the part with the husband being there for you, that may be something you desire. Not in the sense that you desire her husband but maybe you're feeling a little lonely at times and desire companionship and this couple represent the idea of family and love to you, do you have many close relationships with your family? |
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Last edited by Raen; 08-10-2015 at 12:34 AM.
An additional approach to your dream might be that for some reason, you hesitate to take enough responsibility for your own overall self-development, maybe because you have an unconscious opinion or thought along the lines of “It’s not important to care for myself, only for others” etc. |
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