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Before Dream:My best friend is getting married and when she found out i was dating another race she started showing her prejudice side. She is however still wanting to be close friends with me without him being around. She wants me to attend her wedding but has forbid me to bring my boyfriend. My boyfriend has convinced me to go b/c he said if n e thing were to happen b/n me and him or me and her that I might regret not going since her fiance is my cousin. I honestly at this time is so hurt by her sayings that I don't care if I go or not. |
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This belongs in Dream Interpretation. |
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It is in dream interpretations |
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Last edited by Anansi; 02-13-2008 at 12:06 AM.
This does help a lot and actually she called me last night and this is the first time she has called me in forever it seems. It was weird I had the dream the night before she called. She was making sure I was still coming to her wedding she said it means a great deal to her if I were to show up. I didn't realize how much it means to me to be there until she had told me that. I agree with you about what you have said and I am glad that I had the dream. She actually seems to be looking past the prejudice issue by not mentioning it like every time before. Thank you so much. Your advice is very helpful. |
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I am sorry that I posted in the wrong spot. Next time I will try to get it right. But thanks for putting it there for me any way as you can see I am a newbie just trying to figure out my dreams. |
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well I believe that you can translate dreams like these into a kind of quote which sums up your feelings. Its often very symbolic and hidden. Maybe this dream captures these feelings inside you |
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I went to the wedding last night. I actually went to her moms house hours before the wedding and helped her get ready. We talked about everything seems to be getting better. We actually talked about my man without any rude comments coming from her or her mom. Her mom actually said he sounded like a good guy. It was a good wedding regardless it being on Valentines Day. Thank you so much for hearing me out on all this. |
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It's good that this has all finally worked out. It's too bad it had to be a rocky road, but it does seem to have lead to a good place. Your friend has perhaps grown (as well as pulling off a successful wedding!), so maybe through your adversity in this you've actually had a chance to really help her out by helping her to see past her own prejudices. I wouldn't expect that to happen all in a day - might be a rocky road for her, too - but at least she's starting on it. |
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