Sex in my dreams

[slayer]

I never really thought about this until now... Whenever I try to have sex in dreams, the person I'm trying to do it with resists. They don't fight back, but their expression is kind of like "I don't want to do this." I've never actually gotten around to doing it with them because I would wake up due to excitement, but what does this mean? Why do all these people that I try to do it with don't want to do it? I can't even persuade them or control them to do it. I realize forcing sex on someone is wrong, and I'm totally against that, but in a dream anything goes. Is this because I believe forcing sex on someone is wrong, so my brain is telling me not to do it with these people?

[hypnotoad1579]

That is probably whats happening. My question though is why everyone is so interested in using dreams for sex? Is real sex unobtainable or uninteresting for most people or what? I mean I'm not trying to be a jerk or anything, but why? I can't quite seem to see why this is so desirable.

[slayer]

Well, I haven't had actual sex to know what the difference in dream sex, and real sex is. But I think people say that dream sex feels better or something... I also believe that the brain has the ability to "guess" at certain feelings and get them pretty close to the actual thing, so for us people who haven't had sex (or will have a hard time getting a girl to do it with us) we turn to dream sex.

[Mortalis]

I'm not 100% sure, and it may just be an issue with recall, but I think the reason I like real sex so much more is I can remember every little detail, while dreams are sometimes fuzzy, even if I remember the whole thing.

[slash112]

i think your problem is your subconsious telling you its wrong, so just remember its just a dream and you can do anything you want. whenever i have had sex in a dream, she came onto me. so i dont even know if ill beable to force it.

[hypnotoad1579]

I'm not 100% sure, and it may just be an issue with recall, but I think the reason I like real sex so much more is I can remember every little detail, while dreams are sometimes fuzzy, even if I remember the whole thing. True that!

[Mezzanine]

I think this is probably the best thread for this question/situation: I'm a lesbian. I keep having dreams about guys coming on to me or having sex with guys. What is the deal? It's like a big penis fiesta. I can't stand it. I've only had sex with a guy like 4 times in my life. I've been having sex with girls for ten years. I do not want the penis. Is there any way to stop myself from having these dreams? Any thoughts?