Thread: What causes physical attraction?

It is not that complicated for the most part. For guys, T&A is attractive. ya some guys prefer small tits or big asses but its a pretty simple formula. for women, i know most people say confidence, which is partly true. but really its just the $$$$ that matters to women. i hate it when girls are asked what they want in a man. they always say, "i just want a guy who can make me laugh" or some other malarkey like that. do you really believe this women? i have plenty of funny friends that cant pick up women. why are you lying? just be honest. you want a guy that can take care of you and future offspring. and you want a penthouse in manhattan and plenty of vacations and hand bags.

Originally Posted by poopman

It is not that complicated for the most part. For guys, T&A is attractive. ya some guys prefer small tits or big asses but its a pretty simple formula. for women, i know most people say confidence, which is partly true. but really its just the $$$$ that matters to women. i hate it when girls are asked what they want in a man. they always say, "i just want a guy who can make me laugh" or some other malarkey like that. do you really believe this women? i have plenty of funny friends that cant pick up women. why are you lying? just be honest. you want a guy that can take care of you and future offspring. and you want a penthouse in manhattan and plenty of vacations and hand bags.

I don't care how much money a guy has, if he's a dick, I won't go out with him. I won't even talk to him. Money is just a nice add on. The money-grabbing girls are probably girls you wouldn't want to date anyway. They choose material things.

And yeah it's something to do with fertility. Of course, it depends what you personally find attractive. Apparently this is like redder lips, flushed cheeks, shiny hair. Plus curves, although some women don't have curves. It's pretty much signs of health. Mental health probably contributes to this, because we like being around happy people, don't we?

Originally Posted by poopman

It is not that complicated for the most part. For guys, T&A is attractive. ya some guys prefer small tits or big asses but its a pretty simple formula. for women, i know most people say confidence, which is partly true. but really its just the $$$$ that matters to women. i hate it when girls are asked what they want in a man. they always say, "i just want a guy who can make me laugh" or some other malarkey like that. do you really believe this women? i have plenty of funny friends that cant pick up women. why are you lying? just be honest. you want a guy that can take care of you and future offspring. and you want a penthouse in manhattan and plenty of vacations and hand bags.

I suppose I'm a bit strange but I can assert with confidence that money matters not the slightest bit to me. Neither does confidence, actually. If anything, confidence repels me. I've never gotten the 'sense of humor' thing. That seems a random characteristic that wouldn't at all affect what I'd find attractive. So if you're claiming that what you say applies to all women, you're wrong. I understand why you might think that, if the women you tend to be around are all that type (maybe if you live in California or Florida or something? I don't know, it's just the stereotype, maybe it's wrong). But from what I can tell, not all women are like that. It depends on where you go, what people you talk to. If I were to hang out with my aunts and cousins all the time, I'd probably think as you do.

I'm not a "material girl" either. And neither have I ever tried to pursue anyone which the population at large considers handsome or beautiful. When I was growing up, I never perceived people as attractive or ugly until I spoke with them. Personality, for me, is everything.
When I was very young, I somehow developed the impression that anyone perceived as handsome or beautiful were players. I concluded such people would never be happy in a committed relationship. I became "blind" to looks. My mom and others used to accuse me of being a "chubby chaser" and of falling for the "under dog".
It simply doesn't matter to me.

Attraction, for me, is anyone with a bit of a tortured soul (I'm a bit of a nurturer) but independent (not clingy- I need a lot of space). I don't have a sense of humor, so I could take it or leave it lol. Creativity is nice as is intelligence and self-confidence. Emotional maturity is a MUST.

Once I got out into the world more and became a stripper, I began to appreciate the human FORM more. As far as art, I love women. I love the curves and the softness and the innocence. But again, there's just something about the eyes that will either grab me or not. Exotic features are nice too: Oriental eyes; dark skin with light eyes.. but then I'm attracted to the mystery, difference, and contrasts.