Thread: What Would You Do....

@Xei, @tommo, @tkdyo
I could also say that it's natural for me to find it distasteful to begin a relationship based on appearance. I'm not saying it's wrong for a guy to ask someone out for that reason. I realize it's common, and most people have no problem with it, but I still don't like it. The idea of it bothers me in a way just as natural as a man being initially infatuated with a woman based on her appearance.
(He had never met me before and we had barely exchanged a few words. I would not have said yes anyway because I have a boyfriend, and btw I was anything but harsh. My sole concern at the time was to try not be make him feel bad).

Originally Posted by Dianeva

@Xei, @tommo, @tkdyo
I could also say that it's natural for me to find it distasteful to begin a relationship based on appearance. I'm not saying it's wrong for a guy to ask someone out for that reason. I realize it's common, and most people have no problem with it, but I still don't like it. The idea of it bothers me in a way just as natural as a man being initially infatuated with a woman based on her appearance.
(He had never met me before and we had barely exchanged a few words. I would not have said yes anyway because I have a boyfriend, and btw I was anything but harsh. My sole concern at the time was to try not be make him feel bad).

Basically what tkdyo said.
I wasn't saying you did the wrong thing. Just pointing out what is possible in a situation like that.