Originally posted by InTheMoment

lol...and I think they both produce the same effect.

I know it's not for everyone, but I find swinging (partner swapping for recreational sex) to be a very fulfilling and rewarding experience. Again this isn't an answer for all of the negative effects of monogomy, just an alternative. ~
hey, swinging just became legal in Canada (meaning you can go to a club, meet others of like mind, and do your thing on the premises)

out of curiosity, how was the subject broached between you and your partner? were they immediately open to the idea?