 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
So, parents that promote skateboarding or team sports to their 14-year-olds should also promote mushrooms and LSD to their 14-year-olds, even if they do not opt to supervise them at the time of their experimentation?
And, adversely, a parent that does not allow their 14-year-old child to do mushrooms or LSD should, also, not allow them to skateboard?
Is that what you're saying?
Do you have children?
If I was a parent, than I will present a psychedelic drug to my child myself, when I think the child is ready. I will teach the child how and when to use it, and explain to the child all the dangers and mistakes that can happen.
This way the child will both be safe, and will learn, and have an amzing experience.
If, however, I choose to be blind and simply forbid the child from taking any drug, I can be sure the child will take drugs anyway, do it wrongly, and go through horrible experiences.
 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
Many of the activities you are mentioning have age restrictions for the reason that they are evaluated as being ages where certain psychological benchmarks are met, that declare a person as "old enough to be responsible for their actions" for that particular activity.
I have absolutely no knowledge of snowboarding (or it's stipulations) but I (having a daughter) would promote any dangerous activity on the basis of whether or not I feel she can handle the activity responsibly. Knowing what I know about kids, in general, 14 will not be an age where I would be promoting (or allowing the promotion of) hallucinogens to her.
I don't see how age restriction are relevant here.
Kids do dangerous stuff regardless of age restrictions.
Drugs are illegal, so you can't take them at any age. Does this stop kids for trying them?
 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
Do you have credentials or documentation to show that you know the psychological (not physiological) effects of hallucinogens on the mind of a 14 year old (both cognitive and emotional)? Until then, how can you classify something as "less dangerous?" You seem to forget that dealing with psychedelic drugs has certain Psychoactive Effects (which translate to risk) that snow-boarding does not have. When weighing the possible physical and psychological risks of promoting hallucinogens to a 14 year old (taking into account all of the possible, initial, psychological states of those exposed to them) against the physical risks of promoting snow-boarding, which is more, dangerous?
Please let me know how you reached the answer to that question.^
Drugs are less dangerous. I reached the answer by statistics. Though I don't have the numbers, I am certain that I am correct, and I will look for the numbers of you force me. More people, both children and adults, die because of legal activties, than because of psychedelics. And more become disabled. I heard of cases where people ( adults or children ) got damaged because of psychedelics, but these are extremely rare. However everyday I hear about cases of kids or adults who die because of legal activities.
 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
No. Again, my question was why you would or would not allow the promotion of acts that harm another person, but allow the promotion of acts that are the direct cause of harm to oneself. (ie; why you would allow the conversation between Bobby and Dave (my example) but not Bobby and Joe.)
I would allow the discussion on psychedelic drugs, because it is relevant to dreaming, and is important to some of our members. Sure, there is danger in psychedelics, but much, much greater danger in other activities that are accepted, promoted, encouraged by the staff, and even the staff participates in these discussions. I am sorry but my logic in this seems to be irrefutable, as you did not counter it in any of your statements.
 Originally Posted by Oneironaut
We could go back and forth about this all day but, the fact of the matter is, Dream Views is not public property. It is a privately owned place and those that wish to roam here do have to (and should, willingly) respect the requests of those offering the place to hang out.
Considering both the possible psychological and physical risks in the hallucinogen issue, we've concluded to soften the level of discussion of psychoactive drugs to those that pertain to dreaming. We can argue the logic until we both pass out, but if you enjoy hanging out here, we simply ask that you be respectful of the rules, because they are seriously considered, not just made on a whim and obviously (we realize and accept) are not going to please everyone.
This is obvious, which is why I do not expect anyone to allow these discussions because of the legal issue ( which is the only argument that I accepted ).
Sure I accept the rules of the forum, but I do not have to agree with them, nor stay in the forum.
I think it will become a forum for children, which is a fine thing, but I would have liked it to be the best lucid dreaming forum and information center on the Internet, and this it will not be.
And yes I agree that this debate is becoming stale since we are both pretty much countering the same arguments and counter arguments over and over again, and there isn't much of a point in continuing it unless someone brings up some novel points.

I felt the need to put a banana because I felt my post was a bit too cold. Here's a muffin too:
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