Looks like you need a gay on the scene.
I'm pretty damn gay. Actually, I'm full gay. I've tried to make myself be attracted to men, and it just didn't work. I can't help thinking chicks are hot.
 Originally Posted by Mario92
It is a mental thing, but did it ever occur to you that it has to do with the physical structure of the brain, like schizophrenia?
Yes. I read about a study in Scientific American Mind that found that the brains of gay men are shaped more like the brains of straight women, and the brains of lesbians are shaped more like the brains of straight men. This is all over the brain, not just in one place. For example, in straight women and gay men the hemispheres of the brain are usually pretty much equal in size, while in straight men and lesbians the left hemisphere is usually slightly larger than the right.
I have to say, my brain has masculine and feminine aspects to it. For example, in some social aspects I'm a complete man, because I don't understand or know how to interact with girls like a girl. This is made worse by the fact that girls expect me to speak their language. But then in other aspects my brain works like a girl's would-- I talk like a girl, with rising intonation and question words at the ends of sentences (like "right?" or "yeah?" and "okay?"), and I think that's actually partially to try to make up with my manly behavior. Plus add to that the fact that my body is sending out female hormones and affecting my brain that way, and I'm not really "a man trapped in a woman's body." My brain's more androgynous.
If you're a man, thinking about penises will not "turn you gay", unless you really are secretly gay and you're just trying to deny it, but then that's not turning you gay anyway. That's just revealing your secret gayness.
Sexual orientation is not a choice. Yes, you can choose the type of person that you have sex with, but you can't change the type of person you are attracted to. There's a difference. Many gay people have sex with someone of the opposite sex to try to turn themselves straight and it doesn't work. At least, you can't make yourself "feel" straight.
The only way that you can truly choose your orientation is if you're bisexual, but then, again, you're just choosing your actions; not your feelings.
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