I think social anxiety is definitely a disadvantage..and it's unhealthy, and if left untreated can lead to things like depression, paranoid schizophrenia, stress, drug/alcohol abuse and other mental illnesses. |
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Recently, i have noticed that people do not think that much. I never really payed much attention before, not until a conversation with a friend. It came up that i dont talk much. I dont, for many reasons. I have Kind of a mild Social Anxiety problem. not much, but i have trouble starting conversations and talking to people who change subjects a lot. In a way this is bad, because it leads to poor social skills, but it also leaves me time to just sit and think alot. |
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I think social anxiety is definitely a disadvantage..and it's unhealthy, and if left untreated can lead to things like depression, paranoid schizophrenia, stress, drug/alcohol abuse and other mental illnesses. |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
I think both posters made good points. I think there should be a balance. Sheogorath, I agree with you that everyone seems to always be busy. Always with a need to do things, and fill up time. And there isn't anything wrong with that necessarily. Those people simply are what they are, which brings my next point. |
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I dont understand how you can not think of consequences. Maybe it is because of my father being a Cop, always telling me to think about everything before i act, or prehaps from an incident in 7th grade were something i said was greatly exaggerated and spread as a rumor that I stalked a girl. Still, Every time i start to do something, i think of possible consequences. |
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to put it bluntly, social anxiety is a state of mind: fear. |
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thanks Rainman, my intentions are always good. |
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ok, so: |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
Thinking is pointless. |
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If you can't stop and think about something, for 10 minutes or so. Then you go a problem. Thinking a lot generally isn't a bad thing, unless you do it so much that you never do anything. Though that is more being lazy than thinking to much. You can think a lot and be active or you can think a lot and be lazy. Goes either way. |
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Ok thanks for this, even though i didn't plan for the thread to go in this direction |
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Ahh yes I agree with this. If only it was that simple though. Fear's more like a prison than a simple feeling. All the rationalizing and logic in the world never helped me with my own fears, the mind's far too complex for that. What does seem to work is simply looking inward, watching yourself in action. Only an ongoing process of creative self-understanding will result in a jailbreak from fear. Some people meditate, some people get chemical assistance, some people have methods of their own. The method doesn't matter as long as it gets you there. |
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I used to have a hard time socializing also, a very hard time, i was really introverted, but you DO NOT need medication to combat this, it doesn't matter how depressed you are. You just stop being scared...it really is THAT simple. It can be something as easy as smiling, or laughing, it gets you out of the depressing mood. If you can't do that than there must be some kind of problems, like abuse or something as a child or depersonalization/derealization. |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
When Einstein thought through a problem, he always found it necessary to formulate his subject in as many different ways as possible, including using diagrams. He visualized solutions, and believed that words and numbers as such did not play a significant role in his thinking process. |
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hmm, I wouldnt say I have this problem in social situations, I can chat just fine...the time I think too much is before bed. when I lay down it usually takes a half hour to an hour (on a good night) to fall to sleep unless I am completely exhausted. My mind rambles through a myriad of things both good and bad and I just cant seem to do anything about it except let it run its course. |
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I know my subconscious thoughts are chaotic as hell ( the thoughts you have when you're in sleep but yet still a bit aware state ). It's like wtf..it drives me nuts and I can't sleep when I'm aware of my subconscious thoughts, I toss and turn and shit. But eventually i get to sleep. |
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
I used to be pretty shy myself, and I always used to overthink everything. The thing that really helped was simply to spend a lot of time around people. I'm living in a 7-man suite in college this year, and spending so much time around my friends really helped me learn to put my guard down and be spontaneous. Not that thinking too much is really a bad thing, but I just find it so much more liberating when I'm confident enough to "go with the flow" and say what's on my mind. Good luck with working on that. I'm welcome to chat, if you ever want to. |
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Yes singularity, the best thing to do is to interact with other people and the outside world. |
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Last edited by Majestic; 12-06-2009 at 06:26 PM.
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“The intuitive mind is a sacred gift and the rational mind is a faithful servant. We have created a society that honors the servant and has forgotten the gift.” - Albert Einstein
Being thoughtful and tactful is a good thing, but I think if you focus too much on what may or may not come out of any given social situation, you are putting far too much weight on simply "being", if that makes any sense. |
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meepkin I agree.. |
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I've often thought this as well. First off how old are you, because when I was in like 8th-9th grade I used to think I had "Social Anxiety," or in other words, not being able to talk on the same level with other people. For example, a lot of the stuff that I am interested in (Politics, Philosophy, Science at times, History), most of my peers could not care less about. Even most adults dont care. |
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