this girl needs help. she was 20 weeks pregnant and it was a stillborn. so, she dresses it up, takes a picture, and, get this...she makes it it's own face book page. (and like, 6 R.I.P. groups?)
and she talks to it all the time, and even answers for it.
Brittany Lyons hey lil one...mommy and daddy love and miss you sooo much..mommy felt you here with us earlier thank you for lettin me know you were here..i love you so much..goodnight lil angel.. :)
Brittany Lyons hey my beautiful lil babygirl..mommy loves you so very much..i love you so much..and i miss you like crazy..so does daddy...we feel you everywhere we go..i love you nevaeh grace!
I think she needs help.
here's the link to the group: l i n k
HAHHA, OH SHIT, she messaged me. this is hilarious (I tried to be nice at first):
her: so um why is it i need help?
me: well, I think your lamentations are a little excessive. I think it is time to move on. please don't think me callous - I understand the loss of a child can be devastating - but it has been what, five months? and you are still acting as if the child is alive and well. I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist, and I say that with only the most amiable and sincere intentions. please, I think it would be good for you.
her: awww well like ive said b4 its not something im gonna just move on from and my child is still alive in our hearts and im doin just fine thanks...so once again im gonna say this...your opionins to me dont matter :)
me: you are clearly mentally unstable. don't you realize how creepy it is to dress up a dead foetus, take a picture of it, make it a face book and actually talk for it? I realize it is important to find ways to cope with your loss, but clinging to that cadaverous critter is just going to exacerbate your trauma. did you know that the sudden death of an unborn baby can cause the would-have-been mother to go, well, bat-shit crazy? think about it. you could save yourself a lot of pain, not to mention save a lot of people from either cringing or vomiting from the ghastly sight of a titivated little foetus corpse. you are insane, okay? the sooner you realize and accept this, the easier it will be for you to move on, and the happier you'll be.
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