I think it comes down to how private of a person you are. |
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Posting dream journals is a common practice on this site. Is anyone ever hesitant that sharing these windows into the subconscious is too revealing? Similarly, when is it weird to tell people when you've dreamed about them? This past week I dreamt one kid I knew was being cannibalized and I dreamt another was making out with me. I am not engaged in either cannibalistic nor romantic relationships with either of these kids. Would you keep these dreams secret from them? |
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I think it comes down to how private of a person you are. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 01-19-2013 at 09:50 PM.
If you don't feel comfortable, then don't post that certain dream you think, seems out of line. |
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If you're talking about dreaming of your friends or somebody you know |
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Last edited by Valiant; 01-23-2013 at 02:47 AM.
I guess it depends on what you dream about ... I don't often have dreams that I'm hesitant to share with other people because there's generally nothing too weird/embarrassing in them. Sometimes I omit things if they are too weird, but not too often. But I typically tell my friends/family about my dreams. I think it actually helps me to remember them better. Of course, if you're uncomfortable about sharing your dreams you don't have to. |
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“I dreamed I was a butterfly, flitting around in the sky; then I awoke. Now I wonder: Am I a man who dreamt of being a butterfly, or am I a butterfly dreaming that I am a man?” ~ Chuang Tzu
"This is my dream. I'll decide where it goes from here." ~ Alice in Wonderland
I don't mind spilling my guts behind the anonymity of Dreamviews. But strangely, I'm not reluctant to in real life either, though I probably should be. Even when I have dreams like--for example--being in sexual situations with platonic friends or even relatives, intuitively I see nothing wrong with talking about them with these people. Rationally, however, I know I will regret it. I'm beginning to think this lapse of judgement is caused by the fact that they were in the dream with me. They were part of it so it's never been a secret to them, or so I assume. Anyone else ever felt this? |
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I filter nothing but the really personal stuff that some people might take the wrong way. After all, I do have my face posted on this site so I am not guaranteed anonymity. |
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"You Can't, You Won't And You Don't Stop"Lucid Goals: [Ask a DC: "Am I dreaming?"] [Ask a DC: "What are you?"]
No one knows me IRL here, so I don't feel the need to censor as much. I do leave out some small (particularly graphic) details, and on occasion whole dreams. I'm not really concerned about any of the stuff I post here because of anonymity, but if someone I knew did join I wouldn't post nearly as much as I do now. If the topic of dreams comes up in conversation I might bring up small roles the person has played or minor dreams, but I def wouldn't tell most people all things. It all depends, but face-to-face I'm an extremely private person, and in matters of the subconscious my filter goes on hyperdrive. |
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“Never forget that once upon a time, in an unguarded moment, you recognized yourself as a friend.”
I wanna be a rockstar
And I wanna lucid dream
Guess I'll just start
By playing music in my dreams
Your subconscious shouldn't be capable of knowing the difference, it's not aware after all. It's pretty much everything else, everything that isn't aware. The awareness, which is you, is like what.. 15 or 20% of the brain, more or less? |
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Last edited by IronicAtheist; 01-29-2013 at 08:48 PM.
Turns out you're in the minority on this one: |
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I think i know why no one much responds to this post. The post started about confidentiality and now it's about what you can distinguish between reality and dreams? Pick one side please and stop changing topic Skillet7 or you won't have anyone to help you if you keep acting like you don't understand dreams or is a skeptic about it. |
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Last edited by hathor28; 01-30-2013 at 08:24 PM.
^ because you keep trolling it? |
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So you really believe that the dreaming mind knows the difference between fact and fantasy? And I'm not talking about in lucid dreams, I mean in normal (unconscious) dreams. |
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Last edited by Darkmatters; 01-30-2013 at 09:53 PM.
Read all my dream journals, some are fact and some are fantasies. |
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Last edited by hathor28; 01-30-2013 at 10:40 PM.
Let me ask you this then - your contention is that the unconsciuous mind knows the difference between reality and fabrication. So, when I dream of myself first as Arnold Horshak and then as Robert Redford in the same dream, was that reality? |
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Actually, the two topics are very related. The thread (which seems perfectly active to me) is about how the inability to subconsciously distinguish between reality and dreams might inhibit the natural reluctance to confide your revealing or taboo dreams in others. |
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Dreams don't always mean representing as yourself, dreams mean many things and symbols to make you understand what your subconscious is telling you. |
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I am trying to figure your posts out when you started to talk about distinguishing between reality and dreams, but i guess you know about it and i got no logic towards it. |
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