Last night I had a dream about a guy I was involved with for two years (we weren't in an "actual relationship"; he's in a common-law marriage and I was just the girl on the side.) He was the first guy I was ever sexually active with. I'm currently married (have been since June of last year.) In my dream, I'm a soldier in a war, and when I return back to base camp and go to my room to sleep, I wake up and my former lover is there. I'm surprised and shocked to see him there, but then my old feelings for him come back and I'm really happy to see him again. We start to make out and almost have start having sex when I wake up. I'm not sure what to do about this; I feel like, in a way, I'm cheating on my husband. Can someone help me please?