Best orgasm experience in a dream

[Idolfan]

The other night I had a non-lucid sex dream (it's in my journal on this site) and I literally experienced the best climax, like, in my life (not a wet dream either)! It' even better than what I can acheive physically which is even in my opinion really shit . Is this odd? Has anyone else found they can acheive higher levels of exaggurated pleasure in dreams and stuff? Ps. Sorry if this thread sticks out a little, though I am mainly talking about pleasure in general. I'd much rather see if I can induce dream extasy and see what that's like!

[Burned up]

Good thread. We had one like this in one of the other boards (sleep and health?) a few weeks ago. Kromoh was aluding to exactly what you're describing, where orgasm and ejaculation are different bodily functions - whether in dream state or not. I haven't had the experience myself but your post gives me hope. I too find too little pleasure in orgasm at present.

[Moonbeam]

It seems that females can do this easier in lucids than males. I was thinking that really a male should even be able to have multiple orgasms in a lucid dream--there's nothing physically stopping it if it's a dream, and the mind should be capable of it.

[VoyageurNocturne]

I'm a guy, and the other I had a dream that I was breastfeeding a baby (don't ask, I have no idea where that came from haha) and it gave me the strangest sensation. Because, I have heard in the past that some women experience pleasure when they breastfeed, I think maybe it was the same... but it was intense... somewhat sexual. It triggered some semi-lucidity, to the point where I stopped because it was too strange and felt wrong. So, I think I can understand how real sex could be even more intense.

[Burned up]

It seems that females can do this easier in lucids than males. I was thinking that really a male should even be able to have multiple orgasms in a lucid dream--there's nothing physically stopping it if it's a dream, and the mind should be capable of it. Yes, in theory you're right. But because the male orgasm response is tangled up with ejaculation the consequence is that multiples are rare. I think it may also be hormonal (but I can't remember) where men really don't feel like it for a second time because orgasm/ejaculation makes them drowsy. I'm sure evolution theory can explain why this is. It's a very optimistic thought, though, that males can have multiple orgasms like women, without ejaculating. I'm a guy, and the other I had a dream that I was breastfeeding a baby (don't ask, I have no idea where that came from haha) and it gave me the strangest sensation. Because, I have heard in the past that some women experience pleasure when they breastfeed, I think maybe it was the same... but it was intense... somewhat sexual. It triggered some semi-lucidity, to the point where I stopped because it was too strange and felt wrong. So, I think I can understand how real sex could be even more intense. I've not had that one but I have dreamed of having breasts. Yes, there are nerve endings there - probably more so in women than men - and hence it's a pleasurable area. I'm not sure how that translates to dreaming, though. I think that we can experience sexual pleasure regardless of what's going on in the dream. I mean, just because we dream of pleasure from our breasts being caressed it doesn't mean that our nerve endings there are really tingling. The dream may be something to do with the simple (and yes, sexual) pleasure of nurturing someone (not restricted to breast feeding). Generally, men aren't minded to be nurturing but we have that capacity. It sounds like you've become aware of yours although IRL you'll probably find your ego resisting that desire and indeed that happened in your dream when you said it felt wrong.

[Moonscape]

Over the years, I have experienced a variety of sexually oriented LD's. Some were spontaneous, others were a product of my LD goals. I've been the opposite sex, put together like every guys dream girl, but not any sexual activity on my part. Many times I've LD'd about having incredible sexual power, complete with enormously exaggerated 'equipment', serving a harem of women. Yes, I achieved impossible levels of pleasure, but I think as you get older, those type of LD's tend to subside.

[Idolfan]

I think as you get older, those type of LD's tend to subside. NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!

[MartinB]

Many things seem exaggerated in dreams; I think it's only normal that this should include orgasms too. The thing I really like though about dream sex is the fantasy scenarios; sex with a beautiful green-eyed angel, sex whilst flying over a city at night with a famous pop singer, etc. I mean, how could the orgasms NOT be more intense than real life?

[Marvo]

Not to be sound weird at all, but I think one would have better chances at getting multiple orgasms in a dream, if one turned himself into a girl. Now, this is gonna sound even weirder. I've felt vaginal penetration (fingers though) in my dreams, and it is far beyond what I've ever experienced in my life as a male. I didn't reach orgasm, but just that short single feeling. It was amazing. Guess dreams can serve a whole lot of purposes.

[Vex Kitten]

I've had super intense orgasms in dream. One was so mind blowing that I collapsed (orgasm by pressing a button on a panel I deemed to be an orgasm control panel) and then woke up. It's made me wonder if achieving the #10 orgasm is possible in reality. So far I've not had anything close to what I experienced in that dream.

[Marvo]

Sounds crazy Vex! What kind of circuitry and chipsets was that ?

[ygJQ2g]

I've had no trouble having multiple orgasms in dreams. I've easily had 6+ twice or so, without even ejaculating. They weren't that amazing, but they were on par with other ones I've had in dreams. Though I've never tried having multiple orgasms in a lucid, or any sex for that matter. Now, this is gonna sound even weirder. I've felt vaginal penetration (fingers though) in my dreams, and it is far beyond what I've ever experienced in my life as a male. I didn't reach orgasm, but just that short single feeling. It was amazing. I really want to try that.

[Vex Kitten]

Sounds crazy Vex! What kind of circuitry and chipsets was that ? Marvo, if I knew that I'd build one of my own and would probably never be heard from again.

[yelizaveta]

It seems that females can do this easier in lucids than males. I was thinking that really a male should even be able to have multiple orgasms in a lucid dream--there's nothing physically stopping it if it's a dream, and the mind should be capable of it. i have a friend who is male and is a natural lucid dreamer , he does it often and has done it since a little kid. Often in his dreams he has lucid sex, and makes it so he has an orgasm with every kiss...he obviously has great dream control, and when he does this he's having many many orgasms in one dream, with no ejaculation on the physical plane.

[Moonbeam]

i have a friend who is male and is a natural lucid dreamer , he does it often and has done it since a little kid. Often in his dreams he has lucid sex, and makes it so he has an orgasm with every kiss...he obviously has great dream control, and when he does this he's having many many orgasms in one dream, with no ejaculation on the physical plane. See, that's what I'm talking about! I knew it was possible!

[hawksstock]

i have a friend who is male and is a natural lucid dreamer , he does it often and has done it since a little kid. Often in his dreams he has lucid sex, and makes it so he has an orgasm with every kiss...he obviously has great dream control, and when he does this he's having many many orgasms in one dream, with no ejaculation on the physical plane. I myself am a natural lucid dreamer, In jr. high I would induce sleep while watching a show and place myself within the show, etc. My problem is that I awaken before I orgasm, always. In non lucid dreaming that is not a problem. Have any of you overcome this?

[Idolfan]

Wow I need to try some of these crazy ideas! It'll be like masturbating for the first time all over again!

[Barns]

Quote: Originally Posted by yelizaveta i have a friend who is male and is a natural lucid dreamer , he does it often and has done it since a little kid. Often in his dreams he has lucid sex, and makes it so he has an orgasm with every kiss...he obviously has great dream control, and when he does this he's having many many orgasms in one dream, with no ejaculation on the physical plane. ... ...See, that's what I'm talking about! I knew it was possible! I'll second Yeliz there, I'm male too and have similar experiences.