Quote Originally Posted by InterSomnia View Post
To me it sounds like the women in your dream who was your grandmother was really your subconscious. It was only when you and your subconscious had parted that you could become aware. It was that in losing part of yourself you gained a valuable insight. An upsetting dream but also a very deep dream. Impressive.
So does this always have to happen for me to become lucid? And my subconscious, does it mean anything that it was seen as my grandma?