hi, um, im just starting out on attempting lucid dreaming, and this dream i had last night really troubled me. i vaguely remember the entire dream, but during the middle i remembered to do a reality check. so i looked at my fingers and hands. my hands were not normal, but were covered in cuts and gashes. so i was pleased that yes! this is a dream. problem was, only now i remember when i said that, i wasn't in control. i was dreaming of lucid dreaming! the first thing i had in mind was to fly, so i held out my harms, and levitated. then everything went to black and i remember my next dream starting. even when i decided to fly, it wasn't really my decision. does anyone know how to overcome this problem. it's so stressful, that im not even control of my 'lucid dreams'.