Dear Aneas,

You know, since your cousin's passing, he would be more than a dream 'image'. I suppose you are being prevented from interferring with the processes involved by his immediate passing. He needs to establish and consolidate within his new condition. Your attempting to manipulate him, as though he were only a personal subjective image, may have distorted the process somewhat.

But, since you were so close, I have no doubt but that he will contact you, when all of the dust settles.

It took awhile, after their passing, but now both my mother and my father visit in my dreams. Even the occassional deceased kitty drops by once in awhile.

You don't have to force these things. They know you are thinking of them. And doesn't it mean more when they visit you?