Quote Originally Posted by OneUp View Post
Just realize that lucid dreaming is at times more real than waking life. I think you'll find your answer in that. Is it really all that bad? I think that's for the dreamer to decide. All in all dreaming is all in your head, and most would say that none of it is really real. Then that moves us to the question, how do you define real?

To give you an idea of the realness of dreams, all of my lucid dreams and non-lucid dreams tend to be hyper realistic for the most part. This means that they feel more real than real life. All my senses are heightened to a great extent during so.

So more specifically, will a person whose having amazing lucid dream sex wake up and crave the real thing? Maybe, or maybe not. For some, Lucid dream sex can definitely satisfy some dreamers to the point where it might get the job done completely and they don't need real sex. But I'd say for the most part, everyone wants the real thing; its our nature. Does that mean your girl will cheat on you? Think about it. You know her better than any of us do.

As an 18 year old dude I'd have to say that I still always crave the real thing. I could go on and on about this for a while and talk about how some lucid dreamers say they've had the best sex ever in their dreams that waking life sex couldn't compare too. In the end I think its safe to say that everyone has a special experience regarding lucid sex.

I don't know much man, but I think from your position a good move would be to make your girl crave you more than she craves dream sex. Put all the focus on her next time you guys have sex and really blow her mind to the point where she then becomes addicted to you and ends up wanting you 3 times everyday(that might take some practice). Obviously that number depends on you guys' sex drive, so it's just an example.

Hope this helped a lil

OneUp
My girl tells me that its just a dream and she has like no intention or even anything feeling to do it with someone else in the real life.
She really loves me I can see that.
Yeah I guess i'll work on myself more to make our sex life better.
Actually its kind of the same, I see hot girls I have weird thinkings but at the end of the day I only want the one I love. Is that kinda the same?