Thread: Guys I need help about lucid dream cheating really badly

Originally Posted by salsashark

While I understand that one can get jealous over that,

Immaturity?

This thread makes me so damn angry.

Originally Posted by sloth

Immaturity?

This thread makes me so damn angry.

Oh wow, you literally took half of my sentence out of context and now are calling me immature? A person can get jealous over anything, they have a right to. You have a right to be jealous over a fact that someone had more pancakes for breakfast, it will just make your life more miserable.

Originally Posted by salsashark

Oh wow, you literally took half of my sentence out of context and now are calling me immature? A person can get jealous over anything, they have a right to. You have a right to be jealous over a fact that someone had more pancakes for breakfast, it will just make your life more miserable.

All you stated was that you understand that one can get jealous over that, not that you would. I was stating that getting jealous over something like that is a sign of immaturity. I don't know if you are the type to get jealous over something like that or not. If you are then you now know my opinion on the matter, but that does not mean that I was directly calling you immature.
And yes. You are correct. One has the right to get jealous over immature things if they want to. However, I also have the right to point out that getting jealous over immature things is a sign of immaturity.

Originally Posted by sloth

All you stated was that you understand that one can get jealous over that, not that you would. I was stating that getting jealous over something like that is a sign of immaturity. I don't know if you are the type to get jealous over something like that or not. If you are then you now know my opinion on the matter, but that does not mean that I was directly calling you immature.
And yes. You are correct. One has the right to get jealous over immature things if they want to. However, I also have the right to point out that getting jealous over immature things is a sign of immaturity.

The way I see it is that not being able to control your emotions is not necessarily a sign of immaturity, but the actions you take may be. Even mature people with good deal of self-awareness experience unwanted feelings sometimes. You cannot always control being jealous but you can decide what to do about your jealousy. If you use it as a tool for self reflection I wouldn't say that there's anything wrong with it. Everyone gets angry at this guy but he never said that he had a fight with his girlfriend or even told her that he doesn't like what she's doing. If we want to respect her freedom to do what she wants in lucid dreams then I think we should respect his freedom to feel jealous about it. I'd call trying to control her immature, but feeling certain way seems human to me.