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I find it very disturbing that you are that judgemental about me for the sttuff that i dreamt about.
great way to use the word disturbing and turn around a situation and completely ignore what I am saying

if you dont dream about raping then dont say you do, and thats partly why I made my post becuase I didnt think you really did. I doubt most guys even think the same thing as females when the word "rape" is even said ...to be raped in a dream is an age old dream theme that tends to mean either 1. you want sex 2. you feel like a victom. do not lump it together with the same as raping.

to actually rape someone in a dream shows a desire that you WANT to rape. Especially if you are lucid. There is no way around this reality. We do in lucid dreams what we desire. that reality and this reality remains : most victoms will always be female, and most rapists will always be male. you are male. I am female

and how can you ask me, a FEMALE, to not be the least disturbed if a MAN
...........................gets turned on by the SLIGHTEST in dreams or in waking by-----rape???

how can I say with comfort "Oh that doesn't mean he will rape, its just a dream" when no one understands the switch between a rapist and a non rapist. rapists ARE NOT INSANE, and they act like normal men outside of rape. the first step to stopping rape is educating MEN why MEN rape. but how can we do that if we carry the attitude "its okay to dream about raping women whenever you want"



rapists aren't born. they are taught as whole by OTHER MEN that raping is desirable, cool, sexy and ok. so what do you think the attitude "its ok to rape women in dreams" does??

but whatever, I'm tired [/b]
Wtf? I did not try to work it around or anything like that, i just dont like being labeled as an ignorant stupid male fu*k just because of my dreams! and stop lecturing me about raping! i promise oyu I won't rape anyone...


...in the waking world