on the question how to become "The One". Well Neo in the matrix is sort of the Chosen one to liberate all people's minds from this illusionairy materialistic reality; Pretty much a fictional take on a suject that is the reality of this world. To be "The Lucid One" you would have to have skill enough to LD at will and have full controll, master time dillation and have the ability to enter other mind's (friends') dreams and awaken&liberate them too.

At least that is what I, eventually seek to accomplish.