i didnt read everything that's been said becouse i still dont feel like i belong enough and i still dont know much about how it goes over here...
but i have a seggestion all the same if you guys wont mind...


i post in another forum (not dreams related) for a long time now... and the growth rate over there is abit slower but things are kept so good that every single one that stays makes a diffrance and fits right in...
and i think the reason for that has much to do with the moderators as with the members...
now... again i still dont know how the moderators here work but from what i've seen, you guys let too much BS and off topic posts stay...
misinformation/pointless posts/name calling/arguments that have nothing to do with topic and general offtopic posts... all these (and probably some stuff i forgot...) should not be tolarated at all!
if there is one thing that makes furums useless is having to seive through alot of posts that are simply not worth reading (like the things i mentioned) and when you have to deal that you get tired real fast and loose intrest...

memebers who care and agree with such guidlines should also comment when needed (informing people of guidlines in a respectfull way is always apriciated) now sense in leaving it all for the moderators...
i see you had a set of rules but decided to leave just one... i can't see why but i guess i'm not in a position to argue it
but maybe do a post with some guidlines for noobs (like a refrence when greeting a noob)
and later these noobs want to fit in so they'll do their best to be kind to other noobs and help as much as they can like they've been helped and treated

i haven't been here much and already it's important for me to make this a better place cuz i can see i'm here to stay

so i hope you guy's wont take this the wrong way...