Ok I have to say "hello" first off...
Now um....ok I found this site and read through it and I have to say I this interesting knowing that there is a title to the control of dreams...
Now as to the topics I want to get to.... First off I am aghast by the statement that dreams are egocentric... From my experience the majority of my lucid dreams are that where I can jump from person to person and those persons are people I haven never met nor do the contain any traits that my friends or myself have... What I have come to find though is that I can control the being I am there in that "world"......
Meh. Ok, with that said I have a question (I think).... I see things in my dreams I believe would scare the hell out of most people... So I am wondering if that would make it a nightmare? Or if it is to be a nightmare does it have to frighten me? I am fond of having dreams that frighten me, similar to riding roller coaster,. the exhilaration is pleasing.... Also is there anything wrong with that?