Thread: Lucid Love

I can not imagine that you fall in love with someone in a lucid dream. Sex is another thing, but I think any dream is to short and to strange to fall in love with someone. Additionally, everyone you meet in your lucid dream consists of anything in your mind, any face, body and cloths you must have seen before, and what the person says, does, and feels just comes form you mind too.

What may happen imo is that you meet someone you love in the waking life, and maybe have more intimate contact than you may have in waking life, if your love is for example unreturned.

anyways, not dangerous. dreams are never in my view

It would be wierd, and breaking up would be hard. But I think we (I?) could make it work

I bet it could happen.
I fell in love with someone in a regular dream before. I have very long, very vivid and realistic dreams though, so that probably helped. But if it makes sense, I went into the dream in love with them already. And when I woke up, I thought about it, was a little sad.. But it was a dream. So what could you do?
I'm sure lucid dreaming love would be different. It would be interesting to try though.

Originally Posted by Thorim

Additionally, everyone you meet in your lucid dream consists of anything in your mind, any face, body and cloths you must have seen before, and what the person says, does, and feels just comes form you mind too.

I can't say that I agree with this 100%.

I don't think you have to have seen something before in order for your mind to create it.

Originally Posted by Elektra

I bet it could happen.
I fell in love with someone in a regular dream before. I have very long, very vivid and realistic dreams though, so that probably helped. But if it makes sense, I went into the dream in love with them already. And when I woke up, I thought about it, was a little sad.. But it was a dream. So what could you do?
I'm sure lucid dreaming love would be different. It would be interesting to try though.

I've had that happen to me a couple times. I just hated my alarm clock those days so much! I just wanted to go back to sleep and dream forever to be with her. Of course, like most dreams, it fades quickly. Just a brief heartbreak, and then back to real life.

Originally Posted by John11

I've had that happen to me a couple times. I just hated my alarm clock those days so much! I just wanted to go back to sleep and dream forever to be with her. Of course, like most dreams, it fades quickly. Just a brief heartbreak, and then back to real life.

I've experienced a couple of lucid weeks with a dream character.
And in my case, it ruined my entire day, and I wasn't happy for a few days after in fact.

And most of the LD consisted of me crying, because I knew I'd wake up and lose her.

To your original question: Yes, it's dangerous in the sense that it can leave you depressed for a few days (depending on how badly you were stricken)
And if your next naturally progressing question is 'Can you fall in love in a lucid dream?' the answer is yes to that too.

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Originally Posted by Placebo

I've experienced a couple of lucid weeks with a dream character.
And in my case, it ruined my entire day, and I wasn't happy for a few days after in fact.

And most of the LD consisted of me crying, because I knew I'd wake up and lose her.

To your original question: Yes, it's dangerous in the sense that it can leave you depressed for a few days (depending on how badly you were stricken)
And if your next naturally progressing question is 'Can you fall in love in a lucid dream?' the answer is yes to that too.

Wow, thanks for the heads-up. I think I'll try it anyway (if I can). After all, all experience is good experience isn't it?

Just stick to falling in love in the real world. Hehe, would falling in lvoe with a dc make you narcisistic? It is only a part of yourself after all

Originally Posted by Barbizzle

Just stick to falling in love in the real world. Hehe, would falling in lvoe with a dc make you narcisistic? It is only a part of yourself after all

Haha, yeah I guess it would. I think that is probably true in reality to an extent also, meaning we may only fall in love with people who remind us of ourselves!

Originally Posted by The Scrybe

Wow, thanks for the heads-up. I think I'll try it anyway (if I can). After all, all experience is good experience isn't it?

Well yeah, I suppose... it was quite an interesting experience after all
Definitely memorable