should i be worried?

**KDubs** · 03-24-2011 08:16 PM

hey there, i was wondering if someone could answer me a question. the past 3 nights i've had at least one dream each night where my girlfriend either cheats on me or gets hitched with my roommate...its been terrible to go through and i just dont know what to think about it.

any help is appreciated.

**sloth** · 03-24-2011 09:00 PM

Worrying about it is certainly not going to make the dreams go away. See them as they are. They are dreams. Most likely, they are representations of something within yourself.
I once dreamed that I went on a date with a kangaroo. I'm not even making that up. She was a nice Kangaroo, but there was just no spark.
I have no kangaroo fetishes, at least no major ones. I have no idea what it represented, but I know that it did not mean that I should go date kangas.

Anyway, I'm going to repeat myself now. Worrying about it is not going to make them go away.

**Agent** · 03-24-2011 09:02 PM

I'm not an expert on this, but it could be possible that you are worried about the possibility of your girlfriend cheating on you. And your brain could be projecting this in your dreams.

**Vertebrate** · 03-24-2011 09:04 PM

I think your best bet is to ask yourself why you think you are having these dreams. Ask yourself why you are feeling insecure. Talk to your girlfriend.

**c0sm0nautt** · 03-24-2011 09:13 PM

Although it is possible to precognize future events, it is more likely the dream represents feelings and ideas within yourself. Are you insecure about your relationship? How do you feel about your girlfriends roommate?

**Vertebrate** · 03-25-2011 11:46 PM

Originally Posted by c0sm0nautt

Although it is possible to precognize future events, it is more likely the dream represents feelings and ideas within yourself. Are you insecure about your relationship? How do you feel about your girlfriends roommate?

If you precognize enough future events you're bound to be right at least once. Don't let this turn into a self fulfilling prophecy.

**r4nd33** · 03-27-2011 11:31 AM

Dont be worried, my girlfriend dreams almost everynight that i am going to cheat on her, and im not and havn't and wouldnt do so dont worry .

**c0sm0nautt** · 03-28-2011 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by Vertebrate

If you precognize enough future events you're bound to be right at least once. Don't let this turn into a self fulfilling prophecy.

Well, I don't believe the future is ever set in stone.

**CyperAleksi** · 03-29-2011 07:12 AM

My opinion?

They're just dreams, so don't be worried.

**RWJ42** · 03-29-2011 07:35 AM

It could just be a projection from something your missing or not giving in your relationship and your dream blows it out of porportion. Could also be a subconcious vibe your picking up from her or her friends behavior. In either case you need to find a way to review the relationship and make sure your on the same page to clear your mind. Sometimes dreams can feel so real that you begin to act out and she may think somethings wrong with you...