I still have dreams about ex-girlfriends all the time. Dreams are extremely powerful and emotional, so these dreams really hurt. Even if I haven't heard from the girl or thought about her 10 years, my feelings in the dream are perpetually fresh and powerful. I know how much this sucks. I think the best thing you can do is live a good life and meet new supportive and loving people. We can never forget the past, but we can provide ourselves with a bright future to look forward to.

Have you ever tried lucid dreaming? If you become lucid in one of these dreams, you could confront the dream directly, or push it in a better direction.