Hey Shadowperson.

Welcome to DV's first of all.
Your dreams are very interesting.. Howetzer is correct you may need to serach within your waking life for any issues that may provoke these types of dreams..Try to relieve any pressures in your life. It just sounds like that there maybe somethings in your waking life that may be triggering these types of dreams..But being Lucid in your dreams gives you an excellent advantage and utimately changes this scenerio to your out of the norm nightmare. Unlike regular dreaming nightmares you can change this around and take control over the dream content. Im talking full control over what you see and what is done to you. Never be fearful in your LD's because your mode of motivation for control is depleted. Gain your confidence within and pull that out. Turn your fear into anger! Because I would be pissed if I was having dreams on that level like you. So what Im saying is within your dreams GET PISSED> and take control. Don't expose fear because your mind will play on that and that will only make it worse. I wish you luck Shadow..
And if you ever need to speak with me also you are more than welcome to PM me too. See ya around buddy.