I'm Sorin,and I am new on this forum but I don't know if I'm new in lucid dreaming.

So,last year I think I had 1 LD experience without my will.I don't know what I did,I just suddenly wake up in my dream but I didn't manage to control it.I tried and tried to experience it again but didn't work (or maybe it work but I don't remember).Now I know I was something like:"I don't know what I'm doing" because I didn't read nothing about it.So I gave up.

Last week a friend told me he tried a OBE and he sh*t his pants.And I'm not talking metaphorical!After this I start searching all about this kind of "strange phenomenons" (how I called them first) and found some videos on youtube but most importantly:LaBerges book.But just 30-40% from it.The good news is I end up here.And dream control sounds more interesting for the moment.

So yesterday I start writting in my DJ.I rememberd one dream (with good details I think) and 2 things from another (I think it was the first dream because I punched my wall from no reason a body reflex I hope!?!and I was to lazy to look at the clock ).Last night I tried a WILD but didn't work,I didn't managed to control my thoughts but my eyes start spinning very fast.Is this normal? Anyway,this morning I didn't remember anything.I stand like an hour in front of my notebook and tried to remember something...so I had a lost night

It's a waste of time to try LD techniques if I am new in this?My enthusiasm can have a negativ effect?
(if I go to bed with the thought "i want to remember this dream").Binaural beats really work?And what kind of binaural beats I have to use?I mean,for what range?(theta,alpha,delta...)
Sorry if they are stupid questions but some things can't be understand from a guide.Others experiences always help.