First up; hey and welcome to Dreamviews!

1) Quite a few of my dreams are third person instead of first is this normal?

Aye yes, it's perfectly normal. Som pople just have third person dreams. Noting to worry about.

2) Is it like this when lucid dreaming?

Only if you want it to be, same aplies to it being in first person.

3) Is there a way to see first person in dreams all or most the time?

Well lucid dreaming is probably the best way to go to help with that.