Hi, welcome to the forums.
I wouldn't worry if I were you, you'll probably get one soon, doing your RCs and stuff. If you won't have one in a longer period of time, I've heard that taking a break (from RCs and stuff ) might help in those situations.
I don't know that obssesing about it would make it inevitable, since I got my first one in a week of obsessing (But this again probably just differs from person to person.) .