hey, well i agree with NeAvo, WILDing is hard, i know because i've tried it myself however thats only my opinion, but don't let it stop you doing what you want, just experiment, try WILDing if you wish, you'll eventually find something that works, don't give up and keep searching, good luck

PS- i learnt more about lucid dreaming by listining to a podcast erin pavlina's husband steve did, that was the first bit of knowledge i learnt about lucid dreaming, small world eh