Originally Posted by
Carrot
You have to be kind to yourself first, before you be kind to others. Because there is always a possibility that others will take your kindness for granted, when that happens, at least you're not sacrificing yourself to be kind to them.
Don't be an idiot like me, neglecting your own role in the group and helping your groupmate with his work because you know he can't finish, in the end, you get blamed for not finishing up your work although you did the same amount of work as your groupmate. He's not even appreciating your help, treating your help for granted, as though it's a "must" you have to help him.