Thread: Boy ask Girl/Girl ask Boy

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

To be honest, I think that is absolutely ridiculous.

You're demeaning women in general by putting the responsibility on the guy! What happened to empowering both sexes equally? If a girl really likes a guy, she should be able to make a move without any social stigma.

Also, a lot of guys are too shy to make a move. Honestly! Are we still in the stone ages or something? We still aren't past the stage of making sweeping generalisations.

You argue a good point, but I still think it is socially proper for a guy to ask a girl out.

Originally Posted by IZ

How do you know if you have "personality"? Who decides this? Anyways. What tricks from appearance do you girls have to tell what type of guy he is or maybe how "big" he is?

to answer two questions at once, ill answer from my viewpoint anyway.
To me it has always been...its not the size of the waves that count but
the motion of the ocean! And a guy that can make me laugh right off
the bat is a plus already in my book and then take it from there. He should
be intelligent, trustworthy, funny and know what he wants out of life.
I cant tell you how many good looking guys ive dated only to find out
there just isnt any connection or any fireworks going off....or how many
not so good looking guys that i wouldnt think id be interested in at all who
started looking handsome to me because they had such a great personality.
Theres nothing i love better then to tell a really good looking cock-sure
guy that im not interested in him.
And for the next question....i might be a bit old fashioned but ill maybe
smile at a guy i like briefly, but thats as far as i go. Its up to him to take
the cue and come over and chat with me. If a guy's not brave enough to
do this then im not helping him. Its the way ive always been. In a room
like at a dance or whatever i will not smile at any guy im not interested
in...but if the guy is brave enough to come and chat with me anyway,
i will talk to him because he took an effort....if hes funny and nice and not
too corny ill probably enjoy our conversation. But if a girl looks at you and
smiles, youre chances are pretty good that she'll at least talk to you.
I also dont like to be asked to kiss a guy....he has to be brave enough to
try and kiss me or i think hes a wimp lol he should know if im interested in
him or not by at least one or two dates. Many girls are more aggressive then
this tho and will take the initiative, but thats just me.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

I got a question.

Do girls really care about guy's asses? If yes, what function does the ass serve to a woman?

Ok heres a pic of Chris Daughtry's ass!! Nice to look at! Enough said!



Why do guys like girls asses?

Originally Posted by supreme

Why do guys like girls asses?

Because we have a penis.

Originally Posted by supreme

Why do guys like girls asses?

I remember reading somewhere that it was possibly due to the buttocks' resemblance to breasts, but I'm not convinced.

It's probably just because seeing a girl's naked backside mostly likely means that she's naked - one step closer to impregnation.

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

I remember reading somewhere that it was possibly due to the buttocks' resemblance to breasts, but I'm not convinced.

It's probably just because seeing a girl's naked backside mostly likely means that she's naked - one step closer to impregnation.

Actually, you have that backwards. Breasts evolved to look similar to butts. Think about how most (all?) other mammals have sex: the male mounts from behind. So naturally, that's how our ancestors did it too until body layout changed enough to make missionary comfortable.

Originally Posted by drewmandan

Actually, you have that backwards. Breasts evolved to look similar to butts. Think about how most (all?) other mammals have sex: the male mounts from behind. So naturally, that's how our ancestors did it too until body layout changed enough to make missionary comfortable.

Fair enough. I probably got it muddled up in my mind.

Originally Posted by drewmandan

Actually, you have that backwards. Breasts evolved to look similar to butts. Think about how most (all?) other mammals have sex: the male mounts from behind. So naturally, that's how our ancestors did it too until body layout changed enough to make missionary comfortable.

I agree there is species of primates I believe that their butts swell up during mating season.

As far as I go, I just like the naughtiness of it, if it wasn't somewhat taboo then butts might not seem as sexy, and mainly the curve of it ofcourse.

What pisses me off about girls is that I can never tell if they genuinely like me, or they're just attention whoring bitches who lead you on. I've come across several in my day, and I can honestly say their efforts are intentional and very cruel...

It may be a better idea for guys to ask girls. Guys are a hell of a lot more shallow anyhow. As much as I hate to say this, if an unattractive girl goes up to a good-looking guy, she has virtually no chance in hell. I've seen it happen before. If a guy musters up the balls to go up to a girl and ask her out, he finds her attractive. Since girls appreciate personality more, she will find a physically unattractive male attractive. And thus the balance stays in order.

Guys, I think if you like a girl enough, you will work up the courage and take the plunge. 'Course I am speaking of situations when you know each other, not spontaneous party situations.

On the other hand... I think we'd all like girls to know what the cold, cold feeling of rejection is like.

EDIT: Think supreme, what the hell kind of guy would wear tight pants like that? Not a very masculine one.

Originally Posted by drewmandan

Actually, you have that backwards. Breasts evolved to look similar to butts. Think about how most (all?) other mammals have sex: the male mounts from behind. So naturally, that's how our ancestors did it too until body layout changed enough to make missionary comfortable.

So you guys totally think that a woman's breasts were evolved for only
the sexual satisfaction and pleasure of males....and has nothing at all to
do with breast feeding?

Originally Posted by supreme

So you guys totally think that a woman's breasts were evolved for only
the sexual satisfaction and pleasure of males....and has nothing at all to
do with breast feeding?

Yes. Small breasts do the job just as well as large ones. Men favor large breasts so the trait gets passed down more often. Larger breasts are completely useless to the female. In fact, they may be quite encumbering. Larger breasts exist only for the sexual satisfaction of males.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

On the other hand... I think we'd all like girls to know what the cold, cold feeling of rejection is like.

EDIT: Think supreme, what the hell kind of guy would wear tight pants like that? Not a very masculine one.

Well thatll never happen!
do you really think only men can be hurt and rejected...jeez

oh and my kind of man!

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

Yes. Small breasts do the job just as well as large ones. Men favor large breasts so the trait gets passed down more often. Larger breasts are completely useless to the female. In fact, they may be quite encumbering. Larger breasts exist only for the sexual satisfaction of males.

You think it has something to do with sexual pleasure, but it really has
something to do with a mans 'unconscious' need for as many offspring as
possible. Shapes and sizes mean healthy child-bearing women. lol

Originally Posted by supreme

You think it has something to do with sexual pleasure, but it really has
something to do with a mans 'unconscious' need for as many offspring as
possible. Shapes and sizes mean healthy child-bearing women. lol

Look at ANY other mammal on Earth. No large breasts. It's only because humans can walk upright and therefore fuck upright that breasts evolved to be big.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

Think supreme, what the hell kind of guy would wear tight pants like that? Not a very masculine one.

Someone's not very comfortable with themselves. Those could be tighter as well there, young buck.

I've always been an assman, my whole life, I don't know why or how it developed - I just love behinds.

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

To be honest, I think that is absolutely ridiculous.

You're demeaning women in general by putting the responsibility on the guy! What happened to empowering both sexes equally? If a girl really likes a guy, she should be able to make a move without any social stigma.

Also, a lot of guys are too shy to make a move. Honestly! Are we still in the stone ages or something? We still aren't past the stage of making sweeping generalisations.

if hes too shy than the guy is simply SOL.

If you want a girl just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen. Learn to take rejection. If you ask 30 girls out and one says yes your still ahead of the guy that has noone.

I mean its not like a girl is going do anything to you. I asked a girl out a year ago and to this day we are still best friends. I got her to go out with my best friend and she just introduced me to her best friend and now we are just starting a relationship.

Besides I enjoy freindship with girls. I text her all the time and we just talk about how ADD we are and how hilarious it is. We may not have never worked out but we turned out to be better off as friends.

All this just because I was brave enough to ask her out and brave enough to brush off her rejection. And now i just asked out her best friend. SO like i said all worked out.

To be honest, I turn the tables on a lot of women. I'm not shy, I just know that any girl that is worth my time would be willing to just come and talk to me if she wants to. I rarely approach girls and I am rarely dissapointed. I don't need to be cocky, because I can be honestly confident that women will come up and talk to me. If a girl smiles at me and then turns back to her friends, I know she is the exact type of girl that I don't want anything to do with.

Originally Posted by Xaqaria

To be honest, I turn the tables on a lot of women. I'm not shy, I just know that any girl that is worth my time would be willing to just come and talk to me if she wants to. I rarely approach girls and I am rarely dissapointed. I don't need to be cocky, because I can be honestly confident that women will come up and talk to me. If a girl smiles at me and then turns back to her friends, I know she is the exact type of girl that I don't want anything to do with.

well your missing out on a lot of girls. Because most girls are looking for a guy to take control and be confident to ask them ask. It doesnt take any confidence to be asked out. I mean some of the prettiest girls end up not going out with anyone simply because noone is man enough to ask them out.

Originally Posted by Black_Eagle

What pisses me off about girls is that I can never tell if they genuinely like me, or they're just attention whoring bitches who lead you on. I've come across several in my day, and I can honestly say their efforts are intentional and very cruel...

It may be a better idea for guys to ask girls. Guys are a hell of a lot more shallow anyhow. As much as I hate to say this, if an unattractive girl goes up to a good-looking guy, she has virtually no chance in hell. I've seen it happen before. If a guy musters up the balls to go up to a girl and ask her out, he finds her attractive. Since girls appreciate personality more, she will find a physically unattractive male attractive. And thus the balance stays in order.

Guys, I think if you like a girl enough, you will work up the courage and take the plunge. 'Course I am speaking of situations when you know each other, not spontaneous party situations.

On the other hand... I think we'd all like girls to know what the cold, cold feeling of rejection is like.

EDIT: Think supreme, what the hell kind of guy would wear tight pants like that? Not a very masculine one.

Damn right. I've fallen for too many of those chicks that make you think that you can have them, but in reality, its never going to happen.

God damn, the feeling of rejection is like being shut in a freezer after being stabbed in the heart.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Damn right. I've fallen for too many of those chicks that make you think that you can have them, but in reality, its never going to happen.

God damn, the feeling of rejection is like being shut in a freezer after being stabbed in the heart.

dude ur 15 ull learn that rejection means nothing and to just move on. Ask out as many girls as you can. and if you just go ahead an ask them out you don't have to deal with the "maybe she likes me" or anything like that. Either its going to happen or it wont.

BUt one thing is certain...you will never ever get a girl by being passive and "just letting things happen". If a girl is throwing herself at you than shes probobly not the kind of girl any guy would want.

Originally Posted by aceofspades

well your missing out on a lot of girls. Because most girls are looking for a guy to take control and be confident to ask them ask. It doesnt take any confidence to be asked out. I mean some of the prettiest girls end up not going out with anyone simply because noone is man enough to ask them out.

Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. I'm not interested in meeting a lot of pretty faces, I'm interested in attractive women with enough confidence to match my own, the ability to recognize someone who they may have something in common with and the willingness to act on their desires. By setting a rule that guys have to approach women, you are already upsetting the balance of any relationship you might wish to form. I talk to people when I want to, but I don't assume that it is going to be my responsibility to always make the first move and I don't waste my time working the room.

Guys who ask 30 girls out may have a better chance at getting laid, but the confident guy who can hold a conversation but doesn't need to play games with all the pretty faces is more likely to find someone to form a lasting relationship with.

I honestly don't feel like I've missed out on anything with this attitude.

Having said that, rejection is nothing to be feared. Its this fear itself that builds up a fantasy in your mind of what you think you are missing out on when a girl isn't interested. Any positive encounter with a member of the opposite sex is built on mutual interest, and so just knowing that she isn't interested should be enough to give comfort in the knowledge that it couldn't have worked out anyway.

Originally Posted by Xaqaria

Pretty girls are a dime a dozen. I'm not interested in meeting a lot of pretty faces, I'm interested in attractive women with enough confidence to match my own, the ability to recognize someone who they may have something in common with and the willingness to act on their desires. By setting a rule that guys have to approach women, you are already upsetting the balance of any relationship you might wish to form. I talk to people when I want to, but I don't assume that it is going to be my responsibility to always make the first move and I don't waste my time working the room.

Guys who ask 30 girls out may have a better chance at getting laid, but the confident guy who can hold a conversation but doesn't need to play games with all the pretty faces is more likely to find someone to form a lasting relationship with.

I honestly don't feel like I've missed out on anything with this attitude.

Having said that, rejection is nothing to be feared. Its this fear itself that builds up a fantasy in your mind of what you think you are missing out on when a girl isn't interested. Any positive encounter with a member of the opposite sex is built on mutual interest, and so just knowing that she isn't interested should be enough to give comfort in the knowledge that it couldn't have worked out anyway.

you know i don't completely agree with you but your probobly in a different situation than I am...me being in younger.

But you do make a very good point. Rejection is definitely not anything to be feared.

Originally Posted by aceofspades

you know i don't completely agree with you but your probobly in a different situation than I am...me being in younger.

But you do make a very good point. Rejection is definitely not anything to be feared.

The usefulness of this philosophy kicked in for me at age 17. I wasn't all that interested in women before then, so it worked out perfectly.

yes well i am. But my slightly aggressive nature has turned out pretty well for me. I go a tiny private school so I have never been interested with the girls in my school. I did this drama thing for halloween and pretty much talked to every girl there. But right away there was this one girl that I was just so into. She was beautiful, hilarious, and had the same personality as me. I pursued here and we ended up becoming best friends because we are so alike. And now I just made out with her best friend on sunday....so it all worked out pretty well for me cause now her best friend is rellay into me.