Thread: Boy ask Girl/Girl ask Boy

Originally Posted by puppycat

Um. I think just seeing a stimulated penis would turn a girl on. But yeah. If I saw a guy jacking off, I would get pretty horny.

Really? I always wondered if it actually worked the same way. I personally find it hard to believe that it does, but I guess it's just because I don't like guys. =p

Originally Posted by snoop

Really? I always wondered if it actually worked the same way. I personally find it hard to believe that it does, but I guess it's just because I don't like guys. =p

DONT LIE.

Hah.

Originally Posted by puppycat

Um. I think just seeing a stimulated penis would turn a girl on. But yeah. If I saw a guy jacking off, I would get pretty horny.

Seriously? Wow, you are RARE!

Originally Posted by puppycat

Um. I think just seeing a stimulated penis would turn a girl on. But yeah. If I saw a guy jacking off, I would get pretty horny.

Would you like the video in wmv or mpeg format?

Puppycat is honi.

Originally Posted by supreme

ok I have a question for guys......Is it easy for a guy who is in love with his
girlfriend/wife to cheat on her, if a pretty, willing girl hits on him?

I'll try to answer your question.

No, its not easy. In fact its very hard. The only thing is that when guys cheat its because they either have their "love switch" turn off or there wasn't enough or any love at all to stop the cheating. But let me comment on the love switch there. Guys don't run on love. But more on horemones. Lust can be very powerfull. But with love involved when cheating, lust and love cannot mix. Too many emotions a guy might feel that will strike him away to avoid the situation if and when love is present. But remember, guys don't run on love and there are ways a really pretty girl can do to push the right bottons for a guy to have his love switch turned off and leave the guy just running on horemone horsepower. But the guy doesn't have any intentions on cheating or hurting his wife/girlfriend. Its just that love is on "standby mode" for the moment until its over and then suddenly love gets turned back on again and boom, its accompanied by regret and guilt. So don't blame us poor guys, I know we have some blame but its really just the way nature made us.

To my self and own male understanding thats how I can best put it.

Originally Posted by drewmandan

I wouldn't laugh. Believe me.

Answer - Yes. Because it's taboo. Actually, two guys also turn me on.
Answer - I'll pm you because I think this goes against the rules.

Lol at second one.

Originally Posted by Everlong

Lol at second one.

You want a link too?

drewmandan- lawl at both of your posts!

Originally Posted by IZ

I'll try to answer your question.

No, its not easy. In fact its very hard. The only thing is that when guys cheat its because they either have their "love switch" turn off or there wasn't enough or any love at all to stop the cheating. But let me comment on the love switch there. Guys don't run on love. But more on horemones. Lust can be very powerfull. But with love involved when cheating, lust and love cannot mix. Too many emotions a guy might feel that will strike him away to avoid the situation if and when love is present. But remember, guys don't run on love and there are ways a really pretty girl can do to push the right bottons for a guy to have his love switch turned off and leave the guy just running on horemone horsepower. But the guy doesn't have any intentions on cheating or hurting his wife/girlfriend. Its just that love is on "standby mode" for the moment until its over and then suddenly love gets turned back on again and boom, its accompanied by regret and guilt. So don't blame us poor guys, I know we have some blame but its really just the way nature made us.

To my self and own male understanding thats how I can best put it.

ok you are saying that when lust is involved, love doesnt exist, and i can
understand that, as a matter of fact i actually knew the answer already.
I honestly believe i could set any man up in a situation where he would cheat,
even if he says hes totally a one woman man. I dont care if the man is a
reverend. But anyway back to my other question....you say love cant live
along side lust, but cant a man lust after the woman hes in love with?

Originally Posted by LucidDreamGod

In my case for the first question, if I see a guy and a girl make out, or do it, I can either enjoy the fact that the woman is sexually stimulating the male, which I'd be getting turned on by a male being sexually stimulated, or I can look at the female being turned on (and I hardly do that because I'm sadly not one of those guys who think it is hot just to see a woman stimulated), which is like enjoying male given pleasure, or I can just enjoy the fact that the girl is naked, but there is a naked guy right next to her. So it helps to remove all that trouble by just putting another girl in the guys place, and then I can actually enjoy the fact that the woman is actually being turned on, because it is from a female.

Oh and another question

I know there is guys who get turned on by the sight of a woman getting an orgasm, but do girls get turned on when I guy has one? I had a friend who liked the idea a lot of just giving a girl an orgasm, and I was the total opposite (probably because it usualy comes from a male, and I think very deeply into this stuff ).

So you are saying a woman having an orgasm does nothing for you right?
But you are into girls right? So do you mean, it only turns you on if you or
the guy in the porn has an orgasm? I would understand you better if i knew
if you were straight or not.
As for me, Im straight and it doesnt turn me on either when a man in a porn
has an orgasm. It only turns me on if a guy has an orgasm that i have helped
him achieve.

(there two postings in one post, im a fast learner)

Originally Posted by supreme

ok you are saying that when lust is involved, love doesnt exist, and i can
understand that, as a matter of fact i actually knew the answer already.
I honestly believe i could set any man up in a situation where he would cheat,
even if he says hes totally a one woman man. I dont care if the man is a
reverend. But anyway back to my other question....you say love cant live
along side lust, but cant a man lust after the woman hes in love with?



So you are saying a woman having an orgasm does nothing for you right?
But you are into girls right? So do you mean, it only turns you on if you or
the guy in the porn has an orgasm? I would understand you better if i knew
if you were straight or not.
As for me, Im straight and it doesnt turn me on either when a man in a porn
has an orgasm. It only turns me on if a guy has an orgasm that i have helped
him achieve.

(there two postings in one post, im a fast learner)

Well it depends the source of the orgasm, if it is done by her masturbating, then yeah it turns me on a bit, but if she is being turned on by a guy, then it is almost like the source of my sexual arousal comes down to getting of to something caused by a male.

Yes I am straight, as far as I know . And it turns me on when a girl gets turned on by a guy getting turned on by her, anything that basically comes down to pleasure being caused by a girl will turn me on, and also when a girl gets turned on because of a guy getting turned by her it is almost lesbian like to me, a girl getting aroused when the source of the arousal is coming from the girl that is why I like that quite a bit. (By no means am I accusing those girls of being lesbian, we all can see something in different ways)

And sorry if that is confusing, I think into these things quite a bit .

Originally Posted by Pensive Patrick

Finally someone agrees with me on this forum!

SECONDED!!!!!
or third-ed..... idk.
Now for my question how the heck am i supposed to tell without asking if a girl is really into me or just a friend... Cause im clueless.

Edit!!!!! How bout without asking her out?

um..i think thats been covered already...
just ask her out.

Originally Posted by supreme

I honestly believe i could set any man up in a situation where he would cheat,
even if he says hes totally a one woman man. I dont care if the man is a
reverend.

I highly doubt that

Originally Posted by supreme

you say love cant live
along side lust, but cant a man lust after the woman hes in love with?

Technically, yes and no. The moment lust shows up in the picture, love is replaced by lust. But not all the time or every second. It can come and go by the moments, but for both to be felt at the same time no.

Its like say.....teleportation. When you travel from one place to another. There is a void in between the points. There is love, then lust jumps in for a while, then the moment is over, love is back in the picture.

Originally Posted by IZ

I'll try to answer your question.

No, its not easy. In fact its very hard. The only thing is that when guys cheat its because they either have their "love switch" turn off or there wasn't enough or any love at all to stop the cheating. But let me comment on the love switch there. Guys don't run on love. But more on horemones. Lust can be very powerfull. But with love involved when cheating, lust and love cannot mix. Too many emotions a guy might feel that will strike him away to avoid the situation if and when love is present. But remember, guys don't run on love and there are ways a really pretty girl can do to push the right bottons for a guy to have his love switch turned off and leave the guy just running on horemone horsepower. But the guy doesn't have any intentions on cheating or hurting his wife/girlfriend. Its just that love is on "standby mode" for the moment until its over and then suddenly love gets turned back on again and boom, its accompanied by regret and guilt. So don't blame us poor guys, I know we have some blame but its really just the way nature made us.

To my self and own male understanding thats how I can best put it.

Awesome explaination.
Like pedophilia :V


But on the bold part, I disagree. STRONGLY.
Reason:
We're supposed to have self control, supposed to be able to keep the lust away. If lust takes over, you're just an all-fucking man.
Or you're:

Like pedophilia again, if you are one, don't let the lust take over, foo.
(try to use 'pedophilia' instead of 'lust' in your post, you're oppinion on the bold part should change :V)

(AfterIRe-Readit: Holy crap, you're post is fucking scary when you shift lust with pedophilia D8, and it's true)


Also, on the thing about porn: ( I think I can relate to that, seeing as I am supposedly in the middle of my age of hormones >:])

Guy + Guy = Wouldn't turn me on o_o Dunno why actually.
Guy + Girl = Slightly arousing, but the guy makes it feel like I'm not getting any, because he's the one doing it, so I'm just a spectator xP
Girl + Girl = Good, because here, there are no guys to take it from me, and I can be a spectator just fine xP

Also, on guy + girl, it's always the girl being aroused that turns me on, never the guy. Even if I'm masturbating without porn, it works better if I visualize me being a girl, instead of visualizing me being a guy, fucking a girl.

EDITAGAIN.

Originally Posted by IZ

Technically, yes and no. The moment lust shows up in the picture, love is replaced by lust. But not all the time or every second. It can come and go by the moments, but for both to be felt at the same time no.

Its like say.....teleportation. When you travel from one place to another. There is a void in between the points. There is love, then lust jumps in for a while, then the moment is over, love is back in the picture.

No no no no DDDD::::: This is so disgusting now that I'm reading it with pedophilia in mind.

"Pete loved his daughter, but then lust came around.
Don't blame the guy, it's just how nature made him"

..Right?

Why are you involving daughter with lust????????

Some people, apperantly do.

I'm just referring to this part in your post.

Originally Posted by IZ

So don't blame us poor guys, I know we have some blame but its really just the way nature made us.

What you said in your post dosn't necessarily only apply to the cheating on your wife/girlfriend.
As I said, if you imagine a scenario between a man and a little girl instead of a scenerio where the man is just cheating.

It also works with pedophiles.
Pedophiles love switch turns off.
Pedophile does fucked up stuff.
Switch turns back on.
Regret and guilt mode on.
but don't blame us poor pedophiles, I know we have some blame but its really just the way nature made us.

I really hope you can see why I think that sentence is wrong now.
If you cheat on someone, you take all blame. It's your fault. Lust can be controlled, and it should be.

I pretty much agreed with all you said, except for that last sentence about not to blame us, because nature just made us that way.

Kk?
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Originally Posted by Adam

I highly doubt that

Me too, when a guy is in love, even if a woman who is more attractive in many ways to them (if you weren't in love) still wouldn't win him over, because there is no chemical attraction there yet, he has to fall out of lust first.

At least that goes for me.

Originally Posted by Maeni

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Yes please......and I wasn't being serious about that last sentence. Should have put one of these at the end-----> [/sarc]

Originally Posted by IZ

Technically, yes and no. The moment lust shows up in the picture, love is replaced by lust. But not all the time or every second. It can come and go by the moments, but for both to be felt at the same time no.

Its like say.....teleportation. When you travel from one place to another. There is a void in between the points. There is love, then lust jumps in for a while, then the moment is over, love is back in the picture.

Of course, but still....its there at times.

Originally Posted by Adam

I highly doubt that

I sincerely don't, id love to be able to try it though. Id have to have
enough money to waste on a high-class hooker to make moves on said
guy. She'd also have to be a good little actress.....not come on too
strong and be very accommodating and full of appraisal etc. etc.

Okay I have a question for girls.

When you talk to a guy or meet a new guy, do feel attracted immediatly or does it set i gradually as you get to know him? If, let's say you meet a guy and you're interest in him sets in more gradually, then how did you feel about him initially? As in, do you purposely with hold your feeling of attraction until you get to know them better, or is it natural that most guys just don't come off very attractive until they show their personalities?

Let me put it better, do you initially like a guy but hold back defensively, or initially usually feel more indifferent until they win you over?

For me it is both.....I have met guys that i was instantly attracted to and
some i was not. My current husband I thought was a total geek at first!
I met him at a bar and I was out for fun with the girls and i was really
ignoring any advances from any guys that night. There were a few guys
buzzing around that night but i made it clear i wasnt interested at all.
Anyway, my hubby lol came right over and sat with us girls lol That made
me take notice right away....he didnt ask, just sat down! lol We all laughed
and joked around with him. Soon it was clear he was after me, but he had
on this sweater with freaking birds on a twig for a picture! lmao! He kept
on throwing money around and buying drinks and that did not impress me at
all....did not bother me at all either! lol He asked me to dance and so i did,
and he made me laugh my ass off on the dance floor even though i was
trying to be nonchalant about it. He came on to the dance floor with a
cigarette and started dancing while holding it. So I said.....It really bugs me
when ppl smoke while dancing. (we were dancing during this conversation)
So what does he do? He instantly turns a bit towards the bar and just flings that
smoke flying through the air about 15 ft away! lmao! I almost choked I
fking laughed so hard! I'm surprised no one got hit with the flying lit smoke!
So right there i liked him at least. After that whenever i tried to ignore
him again, hed say something so funny id just keel over laughing! The
things he said and did always surprised the hell outta me and it had been
a long time anyone made me laugh good old belly laughs like that. He finally
asked me out, and i asked him if he would give me everything he owns, he
said....Everything! That made me laugh again! So i told him he could take
me to Red Lobster on Thursday of the next week. I gave him my number
but he didnt call me at all until about 6 pm that thursday night and i couldnt
believe he must have stood me up by then and when the phone rang at six,
i answered all he said was....Are you ready? I laughed my ass off again!
I found out he was a union electrician and a computer geek and one fking
good cook (another very big plus!) I had planned to go for dinner with him
and thats all, but....long story short, he made me fall in love with him! Hes
not gorgeous by any means, but to me hes Gerard Butler! He still always
makes me laugh! And all those good looking guys i was dating when i met him,
It was all over for them and I.

That was gradual but if i had met a guy i liked instantly and he came up to
me, i in no way would l hold back my feelings...im not a flirt at all, and i never
act coy. All you have to do is touch him a little bit here and there...the arm or
back....he knows. Some girls do like to play games though so I dont know
what to tell you about that....I would say that if a girl was holding back her
feelings for you that you liked, then ignore her....if she likes you, she'll call
you eventually....leave the ball in her court, and if she doesnt call...then its
your call after that. If you thought she liked you, my guess is she'll call you
if you ignore her altogether. Then again maybe she wants you to be more
aggressive....its hard to say and i wouldnt want to give you the wrong idea
on that either....i mean, dont stalk her or anything....just keep letting her
know you really like her....the squeaky wheel get the grease? You know...IDK???