normal dream sex vs. lucid sex

[BillyBob]

Most of us have trouble having sex in lucid dreams, but yet no trouble at all in normal dreams. I ask you, why should it be harder to have lucid sex? the answer: its not. lucid sex is only hard because we expect it to be. Iv recently been having an onslaught of non lucid dreams wherein I begin to touch/ make-out with a DC. what often happens is when I start everything behaves as it would in a LD, everything begins to spin and the world starts shaking. that is, until I tell myself "why am i freaking out? this is the real world idiot, not a dream" (those are pretty much the exact words I tell myself) when I think this and realize "its the real world, sex doesn't have the same effect as it does in the dreamworld" instantly it all stabilizes and I have my non lucid fun. Now why is it that I was able to carry on without waking in ALL the sex dreams so far? simple, I didn't expect the world to fall apart because "sex will make me too excited and I'll wake up" or "I'm not supposed to have sex in dreams". If I didn't have this self induced restriction governing me I could have sex just as much as I wanted without waking up. Its not the sex that wakes you, its your personal biased opinion that its the sex that wakes you. The reason I believe this to be true is simple, why is it that people that have sex often don't have the same problems as virgins? its because they don't relate sex to making the world shake and tumble. all they think of sex is "pleasure" or some other emotion, not fear or anticipation. So there, Iv tried to explain my opinion on why all you people have problems with sex, its simply because you think you have/ are going to have problems. as with anything in dreams that manifests itself into what you expect it to be. may your dreams live forever,

[mongreloctopus]

i disagree 100%. i don't expect anything to fail. in fact, the only reason i came to the conclusion that lucid dream sex is a bad idea, is because it repeatedly failed in exactly the same way. i wake up at penetration...i think it's a physiological thing combined with low lucidity-stability.

[nightshade]

My only problem with lucid sex is that I often loose lucitdity (wich doesn't make it any less fun).

[Spoof]

I agree with you 100%. I had a very short LD awhile back in which all that I wanted to do was have lucid sex. 8) As I was touching the DC, I remembered what I read on the forum, lucid sex usually leads to loss of lucidity. What I read on the forum is exactly what happened to me. I psyched myself out. Since then, I have decided not to try lucid sex again because there are so many more things to do than that. I have never had trouble with other things, only lucid sex.

[[Alpha]-0mega-]

I remember having FULL lucid sex a few times (aka, lucid sex till the whole show is over). But if I'd have to act as in ''normal dream sex is better than lucid sex, hence the vs." Then I would disagree , However, in my eyes lucid sex is easier than real sex xD. (To accomplish) What you could also do is take the correct position (eg.: Doggy Style) then just shout someone's name while thrusting into ''nothingness'', and close your eyes. It worked for me, someone appeared =P and it worked through well.. half the dream , the other half I went doing other stuff.

[Abstract Fire]

Originally posted by [Alpha -0mega-]What you could also do is take the correct position (eg.: Doggy Style) then just shout someone's name while thrusting into ''nothingness'', and close your eyes. It worked for me, someone appeared =P and it worked through well.. half the dream , the other half I went doing other stuff. And if you're female and you don't have the right... ah... equipment? Myself, I haven't had lucid sex, but I've humped everything except humans non-lucid...

[Wolffe]

Originally posted by Abstract Fire And if you're female and you don't have the right... ah... equipment? Myself, I haven't had lucid sex, but I've humped everything except humans non-lucid... LOL, see, thats the reason I think Freud was right with his theory of dreaming

[[Alpha]-0mega-]

Originally posted by Abstract Fire And if you're female and you don't have the right... ah... equipment? Myself, I haven't had lucid sex, but I've humped everything except humans non-lucid... Erm,... if you're female... then you could assume doggy style, and just look forward and expect to be penetrated? I don't know I never tried it as i'm not into anal sex. And I myself, have never humped stuff, I did get humped by a dog once though.. lol (In real-life that is)

[Abstract Fire]

Originally posted by [Alpha -0mega-] Erm,... if you're female... then you could assume doggy style, and just look forward and expect to be penetrated? I don't know I never tried it as i'm not into anal sex. And I myself, have never humped stuff, I did get humped by a dog once though.. lol (In real-life that is) I'd feel too vunerable. I think I'd rather shag a random tall, dark stranger off the street. Not as vunerable then, because I'd be in control.

[LunarMoon]

I never have problems with LDS. The majority of my lucid dreams actually involve it. The fact that you read about the possible problems that it may entail is probably the only thing stopping you.

[Cinder]

ND sex make you wake up in the climax.

[Burke]

Please, think of the kittens!

[samuraixkyle]

I've not had any problems having sex in my lucid dreams. I will the girls I want to appear. They appear. I give their orders, and they go to work. I only ever wake up after I'm finished.

[elucid]

The only problem I have seen so far is that I finished too fast. And your thought about getting too excited and waking up, we're still not sure what exactly is the cause that wakes up so I cant tell you that it is the emotion disturbance.

[Wolfboy51]

Her parents walked in on us in my lucid dream once. She was white but her parents were indian... O.o this was 2 nights ago.