She expects it, and therefore it happens. She knows it's gonna happen, so therefore, it will happen, due to our brain controlling everything. |
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Recently I've been excitedly telling everyone I knew or whoever would listen about lucid dreaming. My friend believes in lucidity but she says that any kind of drastic control like the stuff I want to do is impossible. She has explained that lucid dreaming is something she does on a regular basis, not consecutively but maybe 2-3 a month. while she says she is aware and that she can control things she has extreme difficulty. She says that often the surface she happens to stand on begins to melt, through force of will she can make the melting material solid again, but if she doesn't keep an eye on it she says that it will begin to melt all over again. She also describes problems with tilt, she will be walking or moving in her dream and the floor will begin to slant, if she does nothing the room will turn completely upside down and she'll have to force it right side up again. |
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She expects it, and therefore it happens. She knows it's gonna happen, so therefore, it will happen, due to our brain controlling everything. |
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Lost count of how many lucid dreams I've had
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No matter how lucid you become, your own psyche will still have implementations. The very fact that you desire to lucid dream is derived from behaviour characteristics of your psyche. |
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She's making hard on herself by believing that something will go wrong. |
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whoa...that's freaky... |
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Pephaps encourage her to check out DV - plenty of proof that 'drastic control' is possible, and it might help contradict her self-fullfilling prophecy - there's a whole sub-forum devoted to dream control!!! |
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Research: VAK (Visual, Auditory, Kinesthetic) Learning Modes, RCs and Lucid Dreaming
Research: Do Lucid Dreamers Have a Particular Personality Trait In Common?
When I say 'I see!' - I've opened not my eyes, but my mouth.
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Ok, I'll see. It may take a bit of doing though. probably won't get her signed up right away and there are no guarentees that she'll be active, but I'll try my best. |
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It takes time for these things. You can never expect someone's behaviour to change in 24 hours. Although I am sure you know this, it is a premise for my next point. |
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I think I'll just make a point in addition to that of O'nus' on her possibly wanting to be with you. That is a plausable possibility and would make sense, however another option could be that you two are very close friends and she trusts you. Her letting her anger out on you could just be because you two are close enough for her to realize that your there for her as a friend and that you understand her. Of course she may or may not think this upfront. |
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I wish you the best of luc kwith you and your friend, hope Dv helps her out |
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That's fairly accurate. Yes, we are both 16 but good enough to be 17 her birthday is four days after mine, I'll be 17 on march 9th. |
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Well, you know what they say. Incest is best, put your sister to the test. |
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*sigh* |
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As for the LDing, the interpretation that was posted earlier could be correct. However, in this scenario, though the interpretation fits well, her LDing problems could just be directly related to stress. Stress, brought on from issues such as this, can be murdersome to LDing. That added in without real knowledge on the phenomenon will kill her control and make it seem impossible. |
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