Recently I've been excitedly telling everyone I knew or whoever would listen about lucid dreaming. My friend believes in lucidity but she says that any kind of drastic control like the stuff I want to do is impossible. She has explained that lucid dreaming is something she does on a regular basis, not consecutively but maybe 2-3 a month. while she says she is aware and that she can control things she has extreme difficulty. She says that often the surface she happens to stand on begins to melt, through force of will she can make the melting material solid again, but if she doesn't keep an eye on it she says that it will begin to melt all over again. She also describes problems with tilt, she will be walking or moving in her dream and the floor will begin to slant, if she does nothing the room will turn completely upside down and she'll have to force it right side up again.

What should she do? Why do the things in her dream not stay the way they are supposed to be even after she successfully changes things? Are these questions impossible to answer since her dreams are in her own mind? Is there a way that she can fix her problems? some kind of thing she should think about when that sort of thing begins to happen?