I know exactly what you mean. I once had a normal dream, in which i went to bed and entered sleep paralysis (in my dream) now i've never succesfully wilded, but i would imagine what i went through would be what a WILD is like, as i watched the dream formed infront of me sort of :S (all this happening within a dream itself)

So i know what you mean, its hard to explain but its basically like dreaming of being lucid but you actually ARE lucid
try that for a paradox