I must say, recurring dreams about girls is probably the least common of complaints around here.

Are you able to have lucid dreams? Are any of these recurring dreams lucid?

You might try autosuggestion or MILD and see if a mantra could encourage your dream to take a different turn. MILD Tutorial - Lucid Dreaming - Dream Views

http://www.dreamviews.com/f12/autosu...thread-131417/

Sometimes the best way to make something get out of your mind is to face it head-on. Turn the problem around and allow it to occur, explore it and see if you have unresolved feelings and/or give yourself permission to no longer be bothered by it. Teaching yourself not to treat this as a problem but an interesting thing to explore might make it easier to get rid of as an unconscious issue.

I'm happy to help further if you don't think this is the right direction. Post any further questions here.