I like that Spoon.

When I think of fate, I always think to myself about choices. I dont think of it as just letting fate choose. I would rather choose.

For example, if I had to choose whether to battle through life trying hard to become a better person etc OR to slump through life, because hey, fate chose my life there's no point in fighting, I would DEFINITELY choose the former. Wouldn't you?

It's the lazy option to just 'let fate do it'