Very interesting book: The Mating Mind, by Geoffrey Miller. It's a must read for anybody interested in this subject.
Basically there is a natural cause for everything that a man finds attractive in a woman and a woman in a man. The book goes very in depth about sexual selection and how it has shaped the human body. It is very interesting because it argues that many of our physical traits that are assumed to have evolved for survival purposes, such as brain size, actually evolved due to sexual selection. Meaning that it evolved only because the opposite sex found it attractive. The survival benefits of our large brains were a mere by-product of an instrument built for sex. We have civlizations spread across the entire world because somewhere along the line, creative intelligence became attractive to the opposite sex. This is how we got art, music, advanced language etc. We are lucky that our sexual ornaments are conducive to survival. Many animals, such as the peacock, are not so lucky. In most cases, physical traits developed through sexual selection actually hinder survival (bright colors, heavy antlers that are otherwise useless, enormous feathered tail.) The point to all this is that every trait on a human, physical and personality wise, can be traced through evolution. Large breasts, hip-waist ratio, big ass, penis size; Geoffrey Miller covers it all in great detail. You will be happy to know that the reasons we are attracted to these certain body parts are completely involuntary and a lot less superficial than you man think. Keep that in mind the next time you are chastised for admiring a nice set of tits.
As for personal preference and the preference of society changing over time, I think that's an interesting question. It is true that a pale, chubby person was considered attractive in the Middle Ages because they were probably rich (keep in mind obesity in the modern world is a whole different ball game, a fat person 500 years ago would probably be considered "curvy" today.) However, people are not attracted to money. They want security and will marry for security, but they don't feel that gut-level, sexual attraction for a person because they offer security. A woman from the stone ages may forge a relationship with a man that can provide security, but when he's not looking she'll get knocked up by a nice strong man that will produce strong offspring. This trend continues even today. There is even evidence that woman do this subconciously. A woman is more likely to get pregnant from a man she is attracted to. They say woman will subconciously squeeze out or block the semen of a man who is not sexually attractive. They are also more likely to conceive when they have an orgasm. Fashion and styles and preferences always change with the times, but there are a few key areas that always remain sexually attractive. You can look at the changing fashions throughout history and they look ridiculous to us today. But you will notice that they always draw attention to certain areas such as a small waist on a woman. Your concious mind will form certain preferences that you look for, but subconciously we are all attracted to the same qualities and there isn't a damn thing you can do about it. Throw a young woman with a nice rack in front of any straight man and he will get turned on, guranteed. A man can conciously overide this attraction and act disinterested, but look in his pants and you will find the truth.
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