Thread: I still can't get it right

Haha dude thank you so much for asking questions. I have so many ideas and concepts internalised in my subconscious but it's only through questions that I can draw them out. I am glad that you enjoy them, I simply just enjoy writing and discussing these topics as you might see.

I will do my absolute best to try to make this post short and concise, we'll see how that goes..

To make it SUPER clear I will put my advice in step by step instructions.

Yes this mindset can be applied to anything:

1. Choose a lane in which this mindset will be applied. (Lucid dreaming, socialising, working out etc.)
2. Identify the right action or actions which will bring you to your desired goal. (Identifying action and outcome)
3. Find a way to ENJOY the action so much that you forget about the outcome.
4. Stay positive and never complain.

I for example as you can see in my Dream Journal REALLY enjoy experimenting, analyzing and learning from my lucid dreaming practise and are happy with the small things, so I do get my results. But I really just enjoy doing it! This way I stay in my practise and get my small (and big) successes as I go along.
In contrast to the people that quit who just think "Ah... I didn't got a lucid dream this night either...." I instead think "Oboy what can I learn from this night?".

It's the same for my nights out, people with big LADIES MAN egos might think "OK... I might as well stop going out I didn't got laid this night either.." and I think "Haha I am the dorkiest guy in the world and oh my GOD I did such a ballsy approach, who would had the balls to do that?" and my EMOTIONS ELEVATE!

A quote that I really like is "The master has failed more times than the beginner has even tried."

Do you see how enjoying the action and enjoying the process is key for success?

I do the same for WILD, always looking on WHAT's POSSIBLE and find ways to make it fun!

While some people think (and I used to as well): "Oh.. I always fall asleep during WILD, I might as well give up, that technique doesn't work.."

I think: "Oh wow I always falll asleep during WILD, what if I try a different posture? What happens then?" and suddenly I discover that the monks actually have pondered the same questions hundreds of years ago! And my motivation and learning continues!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4y6Nh00ul_k

So follow the steps above, but regarding on what you should do, I am not capable of answering because I do not know what amuses you. Only you know that.

Oh and also, I just wrote a guide on meditation (inspired by this thread): http://www.dreamviews.com/meditation...appy-free.html