Tell us about your "relationship" status

[Clairity]

Hiya.. I'm bored and a conversation in another thread triggered this post. Since not everyone feels that they can contribute to "lucidity" posts.. here is an opportunity for everyone to tell a small bit about themselves! YIPPEE!! So tell us about your "relationship" status. Your choices are: a) Just casually dating b) In a serious relationship c) Living with someone d) Married under 10 years e) Married over 10 years f) Married with children g) None of the above Ok.. I'll start. I've been happily married over 10 years (second times a charm) and I have one son. Your turn! .

[Burns]

I've been happily married under 10 years (about a year and a half now, since October 2005). First and only marriage for both of us, and we don't have any kids. Not sure if we'll ever want kids. So we have our animals - Titus (brown tabby cat), Cloud (Tonkinese cat), and Red XIII (red/rust Doberman dog).

[pj]

19 years this year. The bliss just keeps getting blissier. (And I don't mean even the slightest hint of sarcasm there. I never dreamed it could just keep getting better... but it does.) Erm... with children - but didn't see that option on the poll.

[NeAvO]

I can unhappily say none of the above

[Oneironaught]

I'm a pitiful, lonely loser... Umm, I mean single guy. I've been engaged once and "unofficially" engaged once. I always end up falling victim to cheating, unfaithful women. I've all but completely given up on the concept of not being hopelessly lonely. I have a roommate so I'm not "lonely" but, in the romantic sense, I'm completely lost and abysmally discouraged and frustrated. However, I'd love to be married. Now accepting applications.

[Clairity]

I'm a pitiful, lonely loser... Umm, I mean single guy. I've been engaged once and "unofficially" engaged once. I always end up falling victim to cheating, unfaithful women. I've all but completely given up on the concept of not being hopelessly lonely. I have a roommate so I'm not "lonely" but, in the romantic sense, I'm completely lost and abysmally discouraged and frustrated. However, I'd love to be married. Now accepting applications. "Now accepting applications." LOL!! Seriously though Oneironaught, snap out of it! You may be alone but you're not a lonely "loser" and you should never think of yourself that way (I honestly believe that what you think.. you can bring about)! On the real though, maybe you need to rethink your method of selecting women to date if you always end up with cheating unfaithful ones. I don't know you so I don't know what you look for in a woman (i.e., looks, brains, looks, personality, looks.. ) but try and broaden your horizons and you may be pleasantly surprised with what you'll find. Just my 2 cents! NeAvo, you're only 17 per your profile.. so you've got LOTS of time to experience all the happiness and heartbreaks of a relationship... it'll happen! Oh and pj, I did notice that I forgot to add "married with children" on the poll but it wouldn't let me go back and edit the poll information. (and I agree with you.. when you're with the right person.. it does get blissier) .

[Man of Shred]

I'm a pitiful, lonely loser... Umm, I mean single guy. I've been engaged once and "unofficially" engaged once. I always end up falling victim to cheating, unfaithful women. I've all but completely given up on the concept of not being hopelessly lonely. I have a roommate so I'm not "lonely" but, in the romantic sense, I'm completely lost and abysmally discouraged and frustrated. However, I'd love to be married. Now accepting applications. In the seduction world you would be called an AFC (Average Frustrated chump). Don't feel alone This is a North american wide phenomena. I have a thread for people just like you in this section called "ask me/tell me about social dynamics." feel free to join in on the discussion!

[~Erin~]

I can unhappily say none of the above aww *hugs.* Don't worry you're not alone *sniff*

[13redfan]

I am, in a relationship with a girl who I want to marry, lived with for a few months but then she moved 1600kms away (1000miles) to do a practical experience job for her chefs course. So shes been there for 6 months, and I've been here, living with her parents. Which is a bit weird. But cool. So that's my story. We're going on a working holiday in Europe next year january, and we'll see what happens from there.