Hey im not really sure if this is the right forum as it concerns both attaining lucidity and dream control. Basically I have had a few lucid dreams in the last month but there is no real pattern. For example I had 3 in one week and then none for 2 weeks and then 1 this week. I was wondering what the next step might be in order to have more on a more frequent basis. So far in my dreams I don't have full control and even though I realise im dreaming I still dont really understand the extent to what that means so I dont feel like i am really all that consious. I can make a few decisions but they arent perhaps what I would choose to do if I really knew how much power I had in the dream. Also I dont stay lucid long as my brain really tries to battle to keep me in the dream. I find that in my dreams its quite random how I become lucid. I do reality checks and look for dreamsigns in waking life but it my dream I never question if im dreaming. It just sorta clicks that it must be a dream from no where so should I maybe try another technique?
So other than ways to make my lucid dreams more frequent can anyone suggest ways in which I could stay lucid longer and also have more control or is it all simply down to practice? Any advice is welcome. Thank you