 Originally Posted by kirito007
I have a problem, is there anything that can help.?
I tried to lucid dream with technique fild
when I move my finger like playing the piano, I immediately had a dream ..
when I realized that I was dreaming, I immediately woke up ..
I tried it 3 times, and the results failed ..
when I do the reality check, nothing at all that would happen
anyone can give suggestions.? 
Whenever it comes to finding the right technique to gain lucidity, especially when one starts for a few months, there are many things to take into consideration as to why you aren't able to have lucid dreams. It gets to the point where you have to learn how to relax and understand that assuming your mind will get everything just like that without making conditioned responses would be impractical.
You moved your fingers like playing a piano, like the FILD guide makes an analogy of, but the thing is, you have to do a bit more than just moving your fingers, especially since it seems you do have some difficulties. And you can't be so caught up with the amount of time you spent lucid dreaming or how many times you tried certain techniques and had different results with them. You can't freeze your progress by being consumed in the thought behind numbers, because you're only going to stay in a state of feeling depressed and having low self-esteem in your ability to just know self-improvement.
If you want someone's insight with numbers of dreams they recalled and how many were lucid, I recalled (since June 2011) at least 1,000+, AT least, and I have a dream journal system that tracks it at 910 dreams, but because those were mostly sets with at least 4-7 dreams on average, the 1,000 count is just a very vague estimate.
Out of those 1,000+ dreams I recalled just within 2011 up until now, I recalled about 50+ lucid dreams, and maybe a few semi-lucid dreams (but I end up labeling them as non-lucid). I've had my share of being frustrated, going in and out through hell and back just to get myself to have more lucid dreams. I made it a habit for myself to be more analytical in my dreams, because what I found is that through those 1,000+ dream recall counts, I can get a good idea of how I feel in dreaming life and waking life. So even though you had 2 months of attempts, there are some things you have to take into consideration.
- Am I doing my best to keep a consistent dream journal recall count?
- Am I considering being aware of my emotions and actions in my dreams and comparing them to waking life?
- Am I considering how dream characters/thought-forms/figments of my subconscious
- Am I doing my best to have a consistent sleep schedule?
- Am I doing my best to plan out times where I can sleep early or sleep more than usual?
There's more things you can do to question yourself, but whether you get advice from someone with 40 years of dreaming experience, or someone like me who has little experience since June of 2011, it really comes down to how you are able to get yourself to calm down and not be intimidated by your attempts. If you truly want to self-improve, you'll have to learn how to swallow your instant-gratification requirements of wanting a lucid dreaming. Just because you tried it 3 times doesn't automatically mean you're a failure.
These are my stats on what I accumulated personally
- I tried to do WILD attempts at least 50-100 times, and managed to get at least 11 attempts succeeded
- I tried to do DEILD attempts at least 20-30 times, and managed to get 5 attempts succeeded
- I managed to get 27 DILD attempts and at least 866 non-lucid dreams (and the 866 is because I didn't start splitting each dream for a specific entry on my personal dream journal), not my DV dream journal
I've had MILD attempts that worked, but were few as well just like the other methods I tried out, and it's common for anyone to be frustrated of not being able to get lucid by that amount, and there's people who recalled more dreams than I have. But those who look at the numbers and find ways to improve on them rather than being intimidated by them are the ones that can self-improve and work their way into achieving more lucidity.
Recalling dreams, becoming lucid, gaining control, etc. involves you learning how to master yourself, knowing how to realize you have control over yourself, and that you can talk your way into being calm. So if you find you yourself doing the FILD attempt, keep trying it, imagine yourself where you want to be, imagine how you'll feel when you get there, imagine the level of control and stability you'll have and work towards it.
That is really the only practical way to get any success with attaining lucidity, learning how to master your emotions and moderate them and being able to go back and forth and acknowledge what makes you have less lucid dreams and what generally makes you have more lucid dreams. It involves learning how to keep up with your dream journal as much as you can so that it's going to be easier for you to understand how your dreams typically work. And even with that, there's always more to yourself the more you start recalling your dreams, even if they don't seem to make sense at the time.
Never give up, and a mere 3 times is nothing honestly, and even with me attempting to have lucidity over a 768 days period (estimate from June 1st until now on July 9th, 2013), we're all going to have our frustrations every now and then, but keep at it. Keep experimenting, even if you have all the knowledge and information on how to do something, you must take the action now and as much as you can to apply them into practice.
It's all about conditioning yourself to become more aware of the dreaming world, your emotions, your ability to recall dreams, etc., and always aiming to just be more self-reflective of the process.
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