Haha nice. 9 times out of 10, I wake up before "finishing" in sex LDs. And that's after years of trying to control it. So, what I've done lately as a compromise, is I'll start out my LDs doing other goals that I want to do, then end with the sex. If there's a good chance of waking me up, then might as well stick it at the end (no pun intended). That way, I can get more things accomplished, and the dream ends up lasting longer. In fact, I find that just being goal-oriented right at the start of the dream acts as a stabilizer. Which is great because thinking too much about stabilizing can bog you down. I just assume the dream is already stable, and move forward with the Task of the Month, or something else that I want to do. Then it's on to WHO I wanna do