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      How's your dream recall these days?

      I recently realized that there's a (huge) difference between "desire" and "need" -- real results come from "need". You have to create the need.

      Note what LucidEveryNight writes:

      I've gone from having one lucid dream a month if I'm lucky to basically lucid any night I choose. That is from determination and from having a burning desire to get lucid
      That is what I call "need," and is probably the single-most important factor in success in dreaming (both recall and lucidity). Everything flows from this, you change your life for a need, a desire can last for a long time but you can put it on your mental back burner and let it simmer there for a long time.
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      Quote Originally Posted by FryingMan View Post
      How's your dream recall these days?

      I recently realized that there's a (huge) difference between "desire" and "need" -- real results come from "need". You have to create the need.

      Note what LucidEveryNight writes:



      That is what I call "need," and is probably the single-most important factor in success in dreaming (both recall and lucidity). Everything flows from this, you change your life for a need, a desire can last for a long time but you can put it on your mental back burner and let it simmer there for a long time.
      Well in my case is the both, i need to lucid dream and i want to.
      but i can't find any motivation to keep going on, even so i can always remember 1-2 dreams every night
      and recently, i am not writting in my DJ anymore.
      Anyway i keep telling myself that i can do it, and if i've done it before
      i can do it again, but it's not easy, it's not more than words to try to increase
      this "fake" motivation.
      It's like i give up, but i didn't
      It's a strange feeling

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