Dreamsharing?

**LucidDreams17** · 10-29-2011 07:48 PM

Ok look.. There's this girl... and I really want to show her something, in my dreams. She's one of those people who have no idea that lucid dreaming is possible. Is there anyway possible for me & her to lucid dream without her actually knowing it? Like when she goes to bed, how can we dreamshare? Like how can we both consciously dreamshare? I know you might be confused but let me ease it a bit. When she goes to sleep at night, how can I make her wake up consciously in her dreams with me? Cause she has no idea how to do any of this, lol I doubt she'll understand it all in 1 night anyway..
P.S. This is very important to me, all help is greatly appreciated. Thanks!

**Raijin** · 10-29-2011 10:02 PM

O.K. so.... as far as i'm aware, (and anyone is welcome to correct me here) but there is absolutely no conclusive scientific evidence that this is possible. Which means you shouldn't get your hopes up.

**Avalanche** · 10-29-2011 10:25 PM

Assuming dream sharing is possible, and going on the ideas (or facts) people come up with on here, you shouldn't actually try to dream share with someone who doesn't know you are trying to do it. People report that the person who is being contacted (the girl) will have nightmares, and really bad ones.

Assuming it is all false and you can't dreamshare, then I still would say don't do it. It is really a waste of time when you can just tell her to practice it herself, and you can get on with your own things.

**faceonmars** · 10-30-2011 01:53 AM

The psychiatrist Carl Jung believed there was a collective unconscious that connected us all spiritually. I have had the rare opportunity to meet a fellow LD'er who had the exact lucid dream as I did ... but we did not meet in the dream. I truly believe there is a collective unconscious but we humans are still too early in our evolution to understand it.

**Puffin** · 10-30-2011 06:42 AM

Moved this thread to Beyond Dreaming.~

**goodkat** · 10-30-2011 11:05 AM

Dreams are built around your perspective and what you imagine, not others or what they imagine, this alone pretty much says that dream sharing is highly unlikely, and probably impossible. If one were to be so called connected to your dreams then they would experience it entirely different considering what they imagine would be different than what you imagine, in the end it would feel no more then just dreaming separately. People have this idea that dreams can be compared to some form of 3D simulation like a video game when they are entirely different in how they are developed and how they are observed.

I would wager that dreams are more of a 2D simulation, a set of movies that you build, swap around, and manipulate based on what you are thinking.