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    "Wedding Rings"

    by , 08-16-2014 at 04:37 AM (882 Views)
    4:35 AM: I am on a vacation with my wife at Google. We are on the highway driving, and being passed by little Google pod cars--sort of like roundish hover craft-like vehicles. My wife says they are probably just "spy cars." I think they look cool though. We are then standing in a train station, watching the Google monorail pull up. When the monorail arrives, I see that it is a U-Haul monorail (US moving company) and people can put all of their luggage in the nose of the train.

    Then we are on the train, looking for a seat. We pass some odd-looking kids while moving through the carriages, and I decide to nose pinch. Either stuffy nose, or just not aware, because I fail the RC, but something still seems off to me. I inspect my hands, but they look fine. My wife begins to tease me.

    "Are you dreaming?" she asks, laughing.

    "Sweetheart, please stop that," I say, "Something is really not right here!"


    I finally decide I must be awake and proceed non-lucidly (!)

    We are now in Google village, shopping (sort of a Disney-like atmosphere, for those who have been). I am shoplifting small items, and slipping them into my pockets. In one of the shops, I hear my wife talking to a woman. She is discussing selling or trading something. I realize she is talking about selling her wedding band, and that some agreement has been made. The woman leaves to get her items, and I approach my wife.

    I ask her what she is trading her wedding ring for, and she shows me some glass beads. This frustrates me, as the beads are worthless. I try to reason with my wife, and explain how expensive and important her wedding band is, and add that the beads are worth nothing at all. She seems to be considering.

    Meanwhile, the woman comes back with her stuff. I explain to her that we may not honor the bargain. She replies that the agreement has already been made. I reiterate not to get her hopes up, as my wife will probably rescind the offer. I ask her what the beads are made of. She shrugs, feigning unimportance, and says, "I think glass." I appeal to my wife wordlessly, giving her a "see there?" gesture. My wife then reaffirms her decision to trade the ring!

    I suddenly have a false memory of my wife selling her engagement ring as well, some time in the past. I tell her--almost crying, almost screaming--how money doesn't matter, and that I can't bear to see her do this. I ask why she is giving away the rings that symbolize our marriage in exchange for trash? I am conscious now of making a scene. She begins crying silently and motionlessly, and tells me if giving the rings away will "benefit other beings," then she will do it. Her tears are like diluted red water. I think this is odd but am too distraught to really think about it.

    I now turn to speak to the couple--the woman and her husband--but they have gone. They have used the opportunity to abscond with my wife's rings. I run out of the store after them, and scan the village. There are people about, but the couple is gone.

    "You pieces of SHIT!" I scream, but then duck back into the store as I don't want to be kicked out of the park.


    Dream ends a little bit after, bits of images coming out of hypnopompic.

    If you made it this far, let me know what you think
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    Comments

    1. CanisLucidus's Avatar
      I know that this was probably a very unpleasant nightmare, but it's a very cool dream, right down to the details of your wife's red tears.

      Isn't it amazing how strong emotion can cloud even the most apparent dream signs? Emotional moments in waking life are the hardest times to maintain daytimes practices (I find), and emotions are amped up so much more strongly in dreams!
    2. ThreeCat's Avatar
      Hey, CL, thanks for the comment.

      I also awoke with the same feeling. I don't get distressed upon awakening from dreams much anymore, but the emotions within the dreams are often very powerful. That being said, the dream itself was interesting, with lots of strong dream signs and probably some conventional WL meaning, were I to dig into it a bit. I don't see a lot of conventional dream interpretation on this site (which is probably a good thing) but I think some dreams really cry out to be interpreted.

      I agree with you on the difficulty of remaining lucid while angry or upset--I would actually even argue that the moment we have fused with an emotion, and feel that we are mad, we are no longer lucid.

      Zoth has an interesting series of posts up at the moment where he discusses emotions as one of the best available dream signs, simply because they show up in so many dreams. On the other hand, they are probably some of the most challenging dream signs to remain truly cognizant of, due to our constant error of identifying with emotions. I really appreciate the response!
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    3. CanisLucidus's Avatar
      I would actually even argue that the moment we have fused with an emotion, and feel that we are mad, we are no longer lucid.
      Yeah, this can be an interesting tightrope to walk. It's true that when emotion overtakes us it's easy to lose ourselves in the dream.

      At the same time, it's possible to experience overwhelming joy and excitement in a lucid dream, and none of us would want to miss out on that!

      You word "fusing" is a good description of what to avoid I think. It's one thing to experience an emotion in a lucid, but I think that the danger is when we let it overtake our reason. (Which for me is sometimes hanging by a thread in an LD!)
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