In Sexual Lucid dream, can you stop the act before it happens?

[voByJunior2013]

In wet dreams usually, once there's girls, somehow we guys get into sex and have sex and there's no way to control it. But how about if it's a Lucid dream. A sexual thing starts happening, can you just say no thanks and stop it from happening. Cause although i'd like to have an experience with a dream female, i don't always like to end up dirty in the sheets or pants or underwear when i wake up. it's messy and the sheets get stained or a strong smell remains. I haven't lucid dreamt yet but if it did and i met females, i would like to try to not always go hardcore. I would like to take it easy and maybe just date. So yeah, can you refuse sex (nicely of course) when a dream female jumps on you? (in regular non lucid dreams that's how it is, the females just somehow end up on top of you without much reason)

[DreamscapeGoat]

Remember that anything is possible within the dream world. You can outright refuse to engage in intercourse if you don't want to. It's your world, you hold the reigns.

[Zoth]

In lucid dreams, you can reach the "orgasm" without actually....erm, getting your pants dirty. LaBerge actually researched that for some reason. Remember that it's all a simulation, it is not actually happening. For example, if you stop breathing in your dream, you don't stop breathing with your real body. Best way to avoid this "zombie mode" in lucid dreams is just to practice practice and practice. You need to learn that while lucid everything is a product of your mind, thus, you have control about anything you want

[voByJunior2013]

In lucid dreams, you can reach the "orgasm" without actually....erm, getting your pants dirty. LaBerge actually researched that for some reason. Remember that it's all a simulation, it is not actually happening. For example, if you stop breathing in your dream, you don't stop breathing with your real body. Best way to avoid this "zombie mode" in lucid dreams is just to practice practice and practice. You need to learn that while lucid everything is a product of your mind, thus, you have control about anything you want But you said you can reach *** without getting your pants dirty. Then how come in non lucid dreams it always turns wet dream? and we have no control

[Zoth]

But you said you can reach *** without getting your pants dirty. Then how come in non lucid dreams it always turns wet dream? and we have no control There's many theories, this quote mentions a few of them: But just why does the brain stimulate the genitals during sleep? We really do not know why, although there are many theories. One theory is that a filled bladder may stimulate the body, which somehow gets translated by the brain as sexual arousal. Another theory, put forward in Sleep, Dreaming and Sleep Disorders: An Introduction (University Press of America; 1993) is that people do not dream about sex so often but are able to remember sex dreams better than "regular" dreams because, well - they're more interesting. Perhaps the most popular theory is the "use it or lose it" theory. The sexual muscles don't get much of a regular workout for many people and so dreams keep the muscles in tip-top shape just in case the body ever gets a chance at reproduction. Point is, when you're lucid, you can avoid this situation by remembering yourself of your purpose and turning away the sexual scenario that is being presented to you. But regarding non-lucid wet dreams, don't think there's anything you can do (someone correct me if I'm wrong)

[Sivason]

It is a learning process. Many beginners are suprised at ther lack of control, even over their own reactions. With practice you gain control. Eventually you will be able to have the dream you want.

[Belle]

In wet dreams usually, once there's girls, somehow we guys get into sex and have sex and there's no way to control it. But how about if it's a Lucid dream. A sexual thing starts happening, can you just say no thanks and stop it from happening. Cause although i'd like to have an experience with a dream female, i don't always like to end up dirty in the sheets or pants or underwear when i wake up. it's messy and the sheets get stained or a strong smell remains. I haven't lucid dreamt yet but if it did and i met females, i would like to try to not always go hardcore. I would like to take it easy and maybe just date. So yeah, can you refuse sex (nicely of course) when a dream female jumps on you? (in regular non lucid dreams that's how it is, the females just somehow end up on top of you without much reason) What you're trying to do is similar to a spot reduction athletes foolishly assume is possible. As in, you're trying to resolve one trouble area when it's a larger issue. Awareness is key to dream control. Control your mind (your thoughts) and your desires and that waking world work translates nicely into dreamland. No simple fix, gotta get that mind purring like you're driving in NASCAR.

[Sivason]

What you're trying to do is similar to a spot reduction athletes foolishly assume is possible. As in, you're trying to resolve one trouble area when it's a larger issue. Awareness is key to dream control. Control your mind (your thoughts) and your desires and that waking world work translates nicely into dreamland. No simple fix, gotta get that mind purring like you're driving in NASCAR. Very mature observation! Hard work in waking life is the key to control in or out of a dream.